Why do girls like successful guys?

[Anonymous]

Is it simply for the money or because it shows he’s a hard worker? It shows he ambitious and goes out and gets what he wants?

[Mantinziza]

Wow, i could on and on and on here.

I'm gonna try to be short.

Money, prostitutes have sex for money, so think about it.
This man, has money and all she has to do to get it is have a "relationship" with him. And viola it's not prostitution, he's your man.
Because he proved his with by spending money on said "woman".

what does that sound like, start with a p ends with an n.

So when you pull over on the side of a road and ask a girl for a blow job and it costs x amount of dollars for it it's illegal? So by that logic you have to spend the money at a store give her said "object", so she can do her "deed".

Because that's the right way isn't it.

You take her to a restaurant pay 20 dollars for her food, then you take her home and have relations with her, which i might add she doen;t have to do, but why not?

Because women like sex too even though don't want to admit it.
she's just off the hook legal wise, because you didn't enter for a dollar bill, you entered her because you bought her food and now she just wants to get fucked, and she know she will not go to jail for it.

Because your "now" in a "relationship", because you spent money on her, even though if she was a "prostitute", the same end run would've happened.

Back to your statement, girls like guys with money because it's a get out of jail free card.

"If i can get this guy to buy me food, then i can get his dick and not go to jail for it", is there thought process.

I have more respect for actual hookers, than women that pull the crap I stated above.

Name 1 person you know of that hasn't spent some type of money to further there relationship. You can't because society makes in impossible.

It's not prostitution?

Money is still being spent, and someone is sleeping with someone the only difference is instead of pocketing the change, there are leaves in her stomach that you paid for... and of course adding that one step makes it legal. Even though the end result is the same.

So many other examples, wow... i could go on.

It ALWAYS comes down to money, because that's the society we live in.

[tonicandgin]

And when i told my mom the same thing she went all ape shit on me...

[Mantinziza]

@tonicandgin your mom needs to get in reality

[tonicandgin]

She's one of those ladies in denial and was a gold digger.

[Asker]

You should tell your mom to suck your D

[tonicandgin]

Nah, I'm finally out of the house. She's a crazy bitch and I don't want to see her ever

[isweatergawd]

Look at what chris rock said. And you will have your answer

only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally,” whereas “a man is only loved under the condition that he provide something. I’ve never heard a woman in my life say, ‘You know, after he got laid off, we got so much closer.’” After all, when a man meets someone new, his friends ask, “What does she look like?” When a woman meets someone new, her friends ask, “What does he do?”

[emmily2396]

You can be successful and not have lots of money... a college professor is successful, but most don't have a CEO salary, thought they get a good one.
Successful people prove they are strong, determined and trustworthy, not only in their field, but as a person. It shows you can commit to one thing,. which may apply to the people. in your life as well

[Asker]

Good answer 👍

[Iwant2kno]

Personally I think they are attractive because their success is equivalent to a man with discipline, commitment to his goals, who has a strong will power and motivated with any challenge. All this things also mean he is mature and has humbleness to accept his mistakes and grow from them with honesty. Yup a success man is literally a character! 😊

[pootytangg]

It's not even about the money. I have for the most part made way more than my s/o's in the past and now. The ambition and the go getter mood is what is attractive. The confidence and the perseverance. Basically a person that is motivated to get shit done is attractive.

[Asker]

I agree, not one girl here has said it’s about the money, but guys interpret it that way I think, I like the same in a girl

[angry_llama]

Successful people have a great mindset, they're successful because they work hard and stay motivated, having a SO with those qualities is a huge perk

[Asker]

Ok so if his job was to set up a non profit organizational help people and he wasn’t making much money, is that still as attractive? Because it would still take great motivation and hard work

[angry_llama]

Yep.

[Asker]

That’s what I suspected tbh, a lot of guys have cynical views about this, but I know myself if a girl was long term unemployed and just lazy it’s a massive turn off

[Turkishkurd]

Not every girl i don't really care about my men occupation i would like to be successful myself so doesn't matter.

[Asker]

That’s a nice way to look at it, I don’t care what a girl does as long as she likes it and doesn’t hate her life because of it

[kay1523]

It shows drive, dedication, and commitment to something

[Asker]

Ok well if a guys ambition was to help people, but the job was not well paying, would you still find that kind of success attractive?

[kay1523]

For the most part probably. The only time i think id say no is if he was in the EMS feild.

[Asker]

What’s the EMS field? emergency medical service? That’s just a guess

[kay1523]

Yes, sorry i assumed you were implying that by the want to help people, but it doesn't pay well.

But please dont take that as me imply that emergency response teams are dishonorable or unsuccessful! Its just a weird thing about me and not wanting to dating to close to my career feild.

[Asker]

I completely understand

[SarahsSummer]

Successfulness show a drive and ambition which means they are just better than lazy and uninspired. and if we have a choice between better or not, we usually choose better.

[Diana7]

It shows he is a man of intellect, strength, confidence. He is capable of living up the masculine ideal we have in our mind. He can protect us, maybe provide for us.

[Asker]

I’m glad to see girls still appreciate these traits in a man 👍

[1828avaava1828]

I was under the opinion that girls likes slobs that dont have a career and live off the government and play video games all day eating cheetos and smoking.
Thank you for alerting me to my misconception

[Asker]

Lol did you read my question?

[SexyAshh]

Haha omg i loved this:)

[1828avaava1828]

@SexyAshh haha thanks girl!

[Asker]

What’s a Cheeto?

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

[lanabug]

Ugh, I didn't get the memo either, sis.

[lforman007]

Ambition and hardworkingness (for lack of a better word) are appealing.

[inmensus]

I wouldn't say "successful". I'd say determined and disciplined. I am both of those things and I'd like to be with someone who's the same way. No one would want to date a bum either way.

[WingGirl]

It is much more about his self sufficiency, intelligence, and capability to reach his goals. The fact that he can provide for a family is just a bonus.

[Anonymous]

It shows determination, ambition, and intelligence. I don't want a loser. I want a hard working man.

[Anonymous]

its just one of the signs that he takes himself seriously. There are successful people that ultimately are still unattractive in character

[Anonymous]

I’m not worthy for a successful guy

[Asker]

Dont talk like that, nobody is worth more or less than you

[janna_jcb]

It is natural selection

[Asker]

Isn’t that what all attraction is about

[janna_jcb]

Yes exactly, the stupid thing is that in our society today it is something that only complicates things and is useless

[Asker]

How so?

[janna_jcb]

Well we are not fighting a daily battle for our lives anymore (most of us anyways)

[Asker]

But we still want our kids to have the best life possible so kind of relevant, but I see what you mean

[Lightning8]

that applies, possibly even more so to people who don't even want kids

[PopMart1997]

“Natural selection” my ass.

[Tyffen]

I must say it's kinda funny how women always want men who are more successful than them...

But since they have been introduced to the job market (so that corporations can get cheaper labour) they have lowered the chances of the man... She doesn't have to look for one to live a comfortable life anymore...

[Alice2398]

Why don't guys like girls who are losers?

[Lightning8]

Do you mean girls that are losers compared to the guy's level of success, or who just aren't pretty at all or disciplined enough to take reasonable care of herself and be loyal?

[Anonymous]

Girls are leeches who only exist to steal money from men

[Wowgirl30q]

Because men are supposed to be the providers

[PopMart1997]

Yeah, in the 19th century.

[Lance1965]

Because they see the man as a safety net.

[PopMart1997]

It’s the money they’re after.

[AshKaz]

Power is sexy

[Asker]

So it’s about power? Do you find police officers attractive? They have a certain amount of power, but not well paying

[CT_CD]

Successful guys have more money and resources

[bill_towers]

Hypergamy.