What does it mean if a girl asks for your salary?

[Anonymous]

She ask for my salary on the first date. Is she a gold digger?

[fluxofwondering08]

Hard to say without context tbh.
Some women/men date for the long term/marriage rather than casual dating, so maybe she is trying to figure out if you're stable or she could be a gold digger? I know this because in some cultures relationships are viewed as long term/for marriages.
Also, this question gets asked quite often just not as direct as she does it. People usually ask, "What do you do for a living or if you're in school what's your major." If someone says that he's a doctor you can gage his income.

[311WasAnInsideJam]

Yeah, probably. Unless of course you brag about your job. You opened it up to a line of questioning.

Bit if that's her conversation starter, she's probably looking to take the money and run.

[IamErla]

Wait a minute. Did you brag about making a lot of money we're having a huge salary? She might be a gold digger, but how do we know you're not a tool?

[Anonymous]

Duh! What do you think?

If a girl asks how much you earn, you should answer her and then say, "Since you are checking me out as a prospect and asking things that you really shouldn't on a first date. . . how tight is your pussy, will you let me finish in your mouth, and will you do anal?"

[JustAskinForFriend90]

I just got ask this now this is my go to now when I want to reject her

[Opinion Owner]

@JustAskinForFriend90 Satisfying?

[AynonOMouse]

She is only interested in money. Just leave her. Those types are worthless and not loyal. As soon as you have less money, which is likely at some point in your life, or she finds someone with more money, she'll be gone.

[laurenok]

What exactly is wrong with not wanting a lazy bum with no job? Women want a man who's financially stable with an actual career not a total loser in life. It's called standards

[AynonOMouse]

@laurenok Asking for someone's salary, especially on a first date means they ONLY value money and not the person. It means she is a worthless gold digging whore. A normal person wouldn't be asking that, especially so soon.
And those types are easily replaced so she really has no value for a relationship either.

[laurenok]

Nah it means they're trying to see if the man they're with is actually worth their time and not a complete and utter failure in life

[AynonOMouse]

@laurenok It means she is a prostitute. She is pretty much asking for money.

[laurenok]

Lmfao holy shit nice logic. You're obviously a broke ass nigga irl with nothing to offer so you're getting bitter. It's your fault for the choices you made in your life. Everyone has the opportunity to go to school and get an education to succeed. Don't bitch about it if girls want a man with his life together just because you don't have yours.

[AynonOMouse]

@laurenok I have a very good job with benefits and everything, but I still don't like greedy whores. Those types of women don't deserve anyone good. They deserve someone that treats them like the whore they are.
You're just still mad that I told you the truth that you aren't attractive, that is why you followed me here to post negative stuff on my opinion instead of posting your own separate one.

[laurenok]

Yeah I highly doubt that. And who tf are you I don't even remember who you are and what you said LMAO don't flatter yourself.

[Asker]

@laurenok You must be one of those gold digging whores who's keep sucking to survive. ROFL

[JustAskinForFriend90]

@laurenok lol wow she used the "N," racist much

[Mollynotgemma]

Yes! No one should ask that question! I don’t know exactly what my partner earns... why does it matter

[BCA6010]

That or just incredibly blunt or not smart enough to figure it out based on just asking what you do for a living.

Drop her ass.

[Sweatyotterr]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6vwNcNOTVzY

Girls like that only use men for their resources leave her and never speak to her again

[jennifer_bloom]

Its okay to want your equal - if you have a masters - you're allowed to look for somebody with a masters.

[ImpressiveUsername]

No one mentioned a Masters, and frankly it's rude as shit to ask someone about their finances, especially on a first date.

[Kitty46]

That was wrong. Tell her it’s rude to ask. I never ask my boyfriend how much he makes, I want him not his money.

[Sheyhoney]

she may have not meant for it to sound golddigger-y and was just trying to make conversation. Since there's not much background, it's kind of a bad first impression of her being a golddigger.

[GuidoThePizzaMaker]

Women want security. I think its an honest question. If she really cares about money, then why wouldn't she ask?
Its something important. If you dont value money as much as her, then maybe she isn't for you.

[ShadowofRegret]

I am not certain as that alone is not enough to tell her motives, still, I suggest proceeding with caution.

[BeMuse]

Just tell her you’re unemployed if she ever asks that.

[Sweatyotterr]

Lol thats a idea actually

[DDpsy]

It means she is pretty dumb and you should not waste time on her.

[ImpressiveUsername]

Run, for fucksake. On the first date what you make is none of her damn business, and that she even asked is a huge red flag.

[Dinklex3]

Or maybe she's trying to figure out if your stable and on her level.

[Izumiblu]

I’d call it tacky at least but there are some conversations where that could be normal

[Twenty2]

Tell her you make just enough. And if you do make more, then once you feel she should know then tell her or if she finds out, tell her that you have more needs and that's why you said just enough.

[Monica82]

No one should ask how much their making especially on first date maybe after their married talking about financial stuff.

[AynonOMouse]

Yeah, if they are doing that or moving in together and are going to divide up bills and responsibilities then it makes sense to ask at that point.

[Landshrk0068]

I would lean in that direction. But you have left out the context in which it was asked.

[lofii]

she's a gold digger

you should go to a fancy restaurant and order a big tab then leave in the middle of a date

[TripleAce]

Drop her lol... that fast

[HeyThere94]

She might be a submissive bimbo who needs a guy to make the money and fight her battles for her

[Pulimuli]

I usually tell women that i collect recycable cans when they ask that