My mom told me that they were jealous but I don't understand how they could be jealous like they don't even look insecure or act insecure at all because why would they? These are them. It took me courage to post this question since this was something that was bothering me I decided to ask. So the top girl told me that I was so fucking ugly because this guy said something and I was laughing/ smiling and then the other girl says it often she was really nice to me last year and invited me to sit with her and her friends for lunch but now she calls me weird and tells me that i am so ugly and I don’t know why. I am super shy to the point where i avoid contact with everyone because people have been fake to me and I don’t feel the motivation to make friends anymore and i am super quiet and i mind my own business so i don’t know why they treated me this way and today the bottom girl told me that i was so ugly again even though I haven’t said a word to her. People have told me that i give off an arrogant vibe or look like a stuck up but I don’t know if that’s the case. And this is me. I actually thought that they were both pretty and even though I don’t talk to them i thought they were cool and i have never ever been mean to any of them. I've actually helped my them out with notes and finding information online so i really don’t think that I deserve this I don’t know why my high school experience has been so bad to be honest.
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Also other girls feel the need to tell me that i am not pretty and there was this guy that said that too and i don’t understand why people treat me this way I’m shy and i never asked for their opinions.
These girls called me ugly? Do you know why? is there something wrong with me?
Hey hunny, as i was reading your self expression I could already sense you are an intellectual both in mind and spirit type of girl, now this is so easy for me to tell you this and i have a 13 year old daughter who pretty much matches you word for word, the mature soul with both kindness and intellect quite often above your peers often creates the complete opposite of who you are actually are. it comes from fear in fact, a teenage girl who gives off the persona of being so up herself, makes such effort with hair, make up clothes etc, vocalises the most negative remarks to others is the one with the least self confidence, the stuck up stand offish persona they describe is just their way to describe your well developed individual character that is on another level and believe it not creates fear therefore the attack. i will submit to this you are a truly naturally beautiful girl, the 3rd pic sais it all, beauty like yours shines through because its inside based shining through, you clearly have intellect and empathy also, when they took you in briefly you only scared them even more... you have learned a harsh lesson by that experience but you learned straight off, the persona others percieve is their deal not yours, you are entitled to be protective of yourself and actually careful with just how much you have to offer in friendship. you do not comply with the norm you are mature above it, its tough but true by realising why others behave the way they do and its ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with you either is key. To me that girl making the you're ugly remark is so pathetic and all it is is projection, what she actually feels/realises about you is causing such a stir the best she's got is you're ugly... i bet you could outsmart any of these girls with some remark no matter about their looks, their intellect etc but you never would... you seem to me to comprehend the utter madness of it all yet say you dont see why? hopefully what I've said clarifies what you do know about yourself and your soul... as for other friendships id love to chat further youd be helping me too infact re my girl xx you are a truly beautiful soul xx
re art? your default pic was a good impression re you... i can't pm you as im new, im back again, what are you studying? have you ever heard of the term empath? xx
Oh honey at one time or another it has happened to all of us that we come across mean and bitchy people You just don't listen to that crap coz you look pretty too and i am sure many guys would want to take you out
You’re mother is right. They are jealous and catty and, beyond that, they resent that they needed your help with academics. If they were as confident as you imagine, they would have no need to put you down.
My high school experience was similar to yours. Being quiet and minding my own business seemed to be an invitation to get harassed. It will be different when you get to college or enter the workplace. Of course, wherever you go, there will be assholes, but the world of adults is different. You’ll never again experience anything like the pressure cooker of high school.
If there is something wrong its probably with them OR you're imaginating things. Are you sure they tell stuff like that? (Sorry for doubting you so much lol 😂) Even if they really tell those stuff well fuck them. Looks arn't everything but Bruh you obviously look way better than them tbh 😂
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Ok well Dear I’m truly sorry that you have to deal with this. You are shy and that probably makes you seem like a bit different and a bit of a pushover. I promise you that things get better as you get older.
This has nothing to do with your looks , it’s just the dynamics of youth and high school. You’re actually quite pretty and you have a smile that is striking.
Also, there is nothing wrong with you. Life is just starting for you. Keep patience, keep your values your family etc and things will come together for you.
pfft. maybe because you're better looking than both of them. you have beautiful big eyes and a lovely face shape. they're just jealous. stand up for yourself girl. trust me. i don't lie. i am telling you 100 percent right now that you are 10 times prettier. i've dealt with jealous girls like this as well. but i have a very big mouth, and i usually end up making them cry. i am no bully, and i like being nice. but not to people who try to step on me. those people, get back their own medicine times 100. besides, haven't you watched Cinderella? yep. guess why she was treated so poorly by her less attractive step sisters and step mother, lol.
Are you ok? 😀 these girls are so ugly. You're a the girl like the water thats mean in Turkish " You are a beautiful girl." Look me my girl. These situations are so tiny problems. I have a big problems in my life. According to my age , my thought is so big. There are lots of coming people from other else country in my school and country. They want to fight with us , they usually talk dirty talk to me. You don't forget my words. will be one day , and you just will smile these girls.
Just going off of what you've said. You've noted how shy you are and that one of these girls was friendly to you lasr year. It's possible that she's taken your shyness for snobbishness. Even still it doesn't excuse their actions. As far as who looks more attractive because i sense you're trying to understand their motivation. I don't think they're more attractive. I don't think they're less attractive i think all 3 of you have a lot going for you. But i will say women that insult people (other women) are instantly unattractive to me. Nothing is uglier to me than an ugly heart.
Is it okay to post photos of girls who are mean to you on this site so people can judge them based on what you said?
This seems like typical conflicts in high school tbh. In the end, we don't know you or how you look or act irl. They probably know you better than us, and everyone around you are probably flaming assholes. But I think you have to face them head on, GAG is not a good support for these problems
It's a shame you have such a low self image, as you are quite pretty.
Look, it could be that they're just projecting their own insecurities outward, or it could be that they sensed your insecurities and used them against you. Either way, they're just being petty bitches.
Jealousy, your mother is right. A lot of people project their own insecurities onto others. It for some reason tends to make them feel better about themselves, but you are not ugly in the slightest. You're really f*cking pretty and you shouldn't listen to anything those girls say.
You need to try not to allow peoples negative comments Influence you so much. Don't judge yourself based on other peoples opinion of you, because most people that critizise the appearance of others have deep hidden issues with themselves.
Even if they perceive you as arrogant, that doesn't warrant being called "ugly" . You're far from ugly.
Try to focus on self-love and self- belief, instead other peoples negative comments.
You are definitely not ugly. If someone calls you ugly they don't mean it, they think calling you ugly will hurt you. Don't pay any attention to them they'll go away. If someone calls you ugly have a come back, just say, " excuse me I'm not a mirror "
I don’t know why. It could be a lot of reasons. Could be jealousy of looks or jealousy of something else. Could be a way they bond and you just happen to be someone they can put down. It’s about them anyway not you.
You’re definitely pretty. Your looks overall should be an asset in life.
You are pretty. Actually more pretty than them. Your at your age range form cliques and criticize others for fun. The gals that got along with you last year probably found a way to get in with that group, and went along with them calling you ugly just to help them get into that group. Kids can be so cruel. Next time they ask you for help, laugh at them and tell them, “That is easy. If you were not so dumb you could easily see it.”
people just like to put down other people to feel better about themselves. It's just about their own insecurity and they chose to bother you because you're shy so they assume you're an easy target who won't fight / talk back when they say nasty things about you.
Girls are an enigma. Girls have treated me the same way and my mom said the same thing yours did😂 whether it is jealous or just hatred, it sucks. Girls should treat each other like that. My only guess is that that don't like something about themselves and this is how they avoid it. Maybe they see a little bit of themselves in you. Whatever it may be you need to remember to be kind to your fellow girls, even if they aren't kind. Things will work out. ❤️
@UncleSandals. I treat the same through high school and some girls in were very immature . When I did started to have relationship in college but they all fail to because most guys that I did have relationship all cheated. I dumped them. I learn lot to be push. Do not people take advantage of you. I my own learning disabilities.
Nothing is wrong with you. Love yourself. You don't owe them anything. They do that because they hate you. Be with people who want to be around you. Physical appearance is meaningless.
Because your quiet, kind, gentle, nice and honest. PLUS your physically appealing and you attract guys? Of course, you would be hated. And if your Christian or godly as a person, which you do sound like it, demons and spirits on people will react badly. I learned the hard way growing up. Know that you are not alone. Evil hates Good.
They are masking their own insecurities by attacking you. They clearly have an horrible personality which is very unattractive. They aren't half as confident as they portray.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You have an beautiful smile which you should use more. Dont let such horrible individuals effect your personality.
Most likely by looking at the pictures, they are jealous because you look better than them. They are even trying to show more skin to try to attract people and you are dressed conservatively and still look much better. Next time just say, "Later haters." and then put your hand up with palm out facing them like a "what ever" move, and walk away.
I hate people picking on others to project their insecurities, and probably because you are a quiet and shy, they can take advantage of that. Don't let their words get to your head and get up the courage to stand up for yourself too, what's the worst thing that can happen anyway? Beat you up? They can't get away with it nowadays. By the way, you are far more beautiful than they are, f*** them girls!
They are jealous and dangerous. When i tell you that i mean stay away from them cause they aren't nice girls. They have no life and most likely no guy wants them. You need to stand up for yourself and threaten with a lawsuit through the school district tell them your dad retained attorney to bring bullying / harassment school charges that will involve them. Trust me i was bullied/ physically abused/ harassed in school and it was not good at all. Now that is why i am mentally ill.
You're attractive young woman please don't let them bring you down Lay your hands and trust within Christ and he will never fail you i don't want let go of him. All My Blessings To You !!!
People have called me Fatso, Disco Hippo , Made fun of me for being overweight People have shot spit balls at me yes it happened, I was stabbed with compass Yes people in Middle school and some in High school were son-of-bitches to me.
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