It's the man's fault for being dumb enough to believe that his lover is with him for him, and not his bank account. Even when they question the woman she'll act all coy and sweet & he being a gullible fool believes her every word & takes her back every time.
It seems like a lot of these professional sportsmen, actors, singers etc lose touch with reality when they become famous.
I don't blame the women because they are just taking advantage of a golden opportunity.
This truly sucks but tbh it’s the mans fault. No matter what status of men they are after. Ie... some females play men for a meal, movie , money. It’s truly up to us as men to realize when we are getting played. I know the P**** sometimes is good, or they talk a good game. But if you aren’t thought of until they need something. It’s time you either play the game or get played.
It’s the fault of both parties. If men stop falling for women that are clearly just there for their money, there would be less women looking for men for the sole purpose of getting money. Guys also need to stop acting surprised when they use their money to attract girls then get screwed over in the end. On the other hand, women that go after guys just for their money are superficial and that’s also not okay.
Its both the mans and the womans fault. Its not that lady fault that the guy is willingly giving her money in exchange for soemthing else or maybe even nothing at all. He could've said no.
At this point if you can't see through the gold diggers then thats simply ur fault cuz most of the time they've been warned or they knew from the start that something wasn't right but decided to get into anyways
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I only have a problem when they aren’t honest about their intentions... and nowadays, people are just out in the open with how their minds work. So I’m sure some of these rich people who get with gold diggers had some clue as to who they were attaching their life with. Some are even okay with it as long as they get sex or good eye candy for the public in return.
My issue is with the snakes who pretend to be something they are not—they will genuinely fuck up somebody’s feelings.
But anyway, like I said, as long as the so called gold digger is honest, I don’t care. I have no negative opinions about them.
Nothing. That is how those wo/men operate. I think it's sad that many men don't mind being willfully used as long as they have a pretty young thing on their arm. It's their choice and life though I don't agree with it. If I was beautiful like some of these women, I can see the temptation in falling into that lifestyle, but I wouldn't do it (especially for money. Really? I'd rather have my own career than rely on a man).
Anyway, spousal support is just that: spousal support. If someone lives lavishly and then are divorced, alimony should be paid to assure that the spouse is able to live as they were. Child support should be strictly monitored though and the wo/men receiving should have to account for EVERY CENT that goes to that child.
It’s the idiotic government’s fault. Alimony is for a stay at home mom with no work history for the past several year and kids to care for UNTIL she gets on her feet. Not to maintain her lifestyle just because she was living with you.
Having said that, don’t get legally married. Are y’all insane?
If you’re religious go to your priest/pastor/rabbi/Other religious leader and have a religious marriage. If you’re secular, through a party in front of your friends and family.
Say I do. Just don’t tell the government that you did it. It’s absolutely NONE of their business.
If women aren't responsible for the fallout from men playing them, which society says they're not and the man shouldn't be playing women, then men are not responsible for the fallout from women playing them. I'm not familiar with the people you've used as an example, nor do I need to be, but alimony is an outdated concept now and should be discarded, completely. Women are accepted in the workplace and there's no reason they can't get jobs. Used to living a certain lifestyle? Who cares. When it comes to child support, no one should be paying more than their jurisdiction requires simply because the payer has a ton of money. In Michigan, where I live, child support is determined by the incomes of both parents. There's also a cap. The formula is based on average costs of necessities in the childrens address jurisdiction.
Ya I read somewhere that another dude had to pay 40k per month to his ex wife cause of the child...
I personally think these laws are absolutely stupid and I really don’t see the justification why a child needs 40k per month or why this women should get 100k per month
It really depends. If you’re a man who’s using your money to get a woman, I think that’s wrong. However, if you’re a woman who’s only attracted to a man financially, while the man has no idea and actually has feelings for the woman, it’s definitely the woman’s fault.
Yee. I can't pick in the middle?; LOL
I think it is more*ly one sides fault over the other but in many ways just as much if not more the guys fault.
He's the one putting up with it or allowing himself to be drugged through it all.
Now aside from those who say they were "under a spell or sumin" Still.
I've been through my share, now, I was not however anything like this, about money rather than time spent or not spent with this person.
I think guys, that includes younger men, should be weary of such things.
If you are not prepared, you will not see what is coming.
so all I can advise, is, ask. Go to your dad, mom, family, cousin, a good friend.
Heck even a stranger like me. I'd listen to yah sob story. Is sometimes all we have left. Stories.
i'm not gonna get played, but i do feel sorry for those that do. you set up your own situations and therefore you have to deal with them. it's the guys fault for falling for a player, but shame on the gold digger.
It is the fault of both parties really , the man for being a simp and not thinking with his cranial head ( why I like my detached and a bit cynical nature... it's protection ! ) and the woman for being a manipulative leech.
You can really only blame the person doing it and the laws that make it possible. Laws should protect against that not allow it.
I feel worse for poorer and dumber guys from shitty areas who try to “save” trash women they live around than I do idiot millionaires who literally have hundreds of choices.
Women's fault. Are we really going to blame the victim? Not cool.
"gold-diggers are the wife-beaters for men."
-Bill Burr
You can't blame the women because she didn't force him to pick her. The man picked her, then that's his problem.
Pick a better decent woman to be with.
It's the woman's fault of course! But for the man to be such a dumbass like this to let her use him then throw him out and milk his money shows his stupidity
It's the men's fault for using their little heads instead of using their big heads.
Being a player is someone's own fault (choice). Being played by is yours.
So if a woman wants to get rich just marry a guy with a lot of money then divorce him.
Every person is responsible for their own behavior. A concept most women just can't handle.
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Justifying women using men, but has a problem when men return the favour.
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