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It's the man's fault for being dumb enough to believe that his lover is with him for him, and not his bank account. Even when they question the woman she'll act all coy and sweet & he being a gullible fool believes her every word & takes her back every time.
It seems like a lot of these professional sportsmen, actors, singers etc lose touch with reality when they become famous.
I don't blame the women because they are just taking advantage of a golden opportunity.
This truly sucks but tbh it’s the mans fault. No matter what status of men they are after. Ie... some females play men for a meal, movie , money. It’s truly up to us as men to realize when we are getting played. I know the P**** sometimes is good, or they talk a good game. But if you aren’t thought of until they need something. It’s time you either play the game or get played.
Exactly
Girls get played everyday? How? Cheating isn’t “playing”
It’s the fault of both parties. If men stop falling for women that are clearly just there for their money, there would be less women looking for men for the sole purpose of getting money. Guys also need to stop acting surprised when they use their money to attract girls then get screwed over in the end. On the other hand, women that go after guys just for their money are superficial and that’s also not okay.
Its both the mans and the womans fault. Its not that lady fault that the guy is willingly giving her money in exchange for soemthing else or maybe even nothing at all. He could've said no.
At this point if you can't see through the gold diggers then thats simply ur fault cuz most of the time they've been warned or they knew from the start that something wasn't right but decided to get into anyways
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I only have a problem when they aren’t honest about their intentions... and nowadays, people are just out in the open with how their minds work. So I’m sure some of these rich people who get with gold diggers had some clue as to who they were attaching their life with. Some are even okay with it as long as they get sex or good eye candy for the public in return.
My issue is with the snakes who pretend to be something they are not—they will genuinely fuck up somebody’s feelings.
But anyway, like I said, as long as the so called gold digger is honest, I don’t care. I have no negative opinions about them.
With the gold diggers it’s obvious, the only person the dude can fool is himself
Exactly.
Nothing. That is how those wo/men operate. I think it's sad that many men don't mind being willfully used as long as they have a pretty young thing on their arm. It's their choice and life though I don't agree with it. If I was beautiful like some of these women, I can see the temptation in falling into that lifestyle, but I wouldn't do it (especially for money. Really? I'd rather have my own career than rely on a man).
Anyway, spousal support is just that: spousal support. If someone lives lavishly and then are divorced, alimony should be paid to assure that the spouse is able to live as they were. Child support should be strictly monitored though and the wo/men receiving should have to account for EVERY CENT that goes to that child.
What I find interesting is the number of conservative/traditional men who scream about alimony and yet want a traditional wife who stays at home, cooks, cleans, serves him, and takes care of the children? What's wrong with this picture?
The temptation of being with an old man for money? Uh yuck never. And the woman I mentioned isn’t young. You don’t have to be young to be a gold digger. Or a female player.
There are younger men that are loaded but my issue would be if they were not what I considered attractive and if I were beautiful, would I want to be with them? I think it's interesting how some people can sleep with people they aren't attracted to.
Whatever she's doing is looking good for her then if she isn't young (but I consider anyone under 60 young).
Yeah the point of them being with older men is that it isn’t serious, and they are easier to manipulate when it comes to money. Plus young men who are rich rarely mess with gold diggers. And yeah lots of people sleep with others they aren’t attracted to, in this situation it’s kinda sad tho, the girls that do this usually need the money to live
It’s the idiotic government’s fault. Alimony is for a stay at home mom with no work history for the past several year and kids to care for UNTIL she gets on her feet. Not to maintain her lifestyle just because she was living with you.
Having said that, don’t get legally married. Are y’all insane?
If you’re religious go to your priest/pastor/rabbi/Other religious leader and have a religious marriage. If you’re secular, through a party in front of your friends and family.
Say I do. Just don’t tell the government that you did it. It’s absolutely NONE of their business.
If women aren't responsible for the fallout from men playing them, which society says they're not and the man shouldn't be playing women, then men are not responsible for the fallout from women playing them. I'm not familiar with the people you've used as an example, nor do I need to be, but alimony is an outdated concept now and should be discarded, completely. Women are accepted in the workplace and there's no reason they can't get jobs. Used to living a certain lifestyle? Who cares. When it comes to child support, no one should be paying more than their jurisdiction requires simply because the payer has a ton of money. In Michigan, where I live, child support is determined by the incomes of both parents. There's also a cap. The formula is based on average costs of necessities in the childrens address jurisdiction.
Ya I read somewhere that another dude had to pay 40k per month to his ex wife cause of the child...
I personally think these laws are absolutely stupid and I really don’t see the justification why a child needs 40k per month or why this women should get 100k per month
You men want to use money to attract women right? This is what you get. It isn’t stupid. Using money to get gold diggers is. It’s your men’s fault.
Well it is. You guys want to be stupid but then complain about your actions for being stupid.
It really depends. If you’re a man who’s using your money to get a woman, I think that’s wrong. However, if you’re a woman who’s only attracted to a man financially, while the man has no idea and actually has feelings for the woman, it’s definitely the woman’s fault.
Yee. I can't pick in the middle?; LOL
I think it is more*ly one sides fault over the other but in many ways just as much if not more the guys fault.
He's the one putting up with it or allowing himself to be drugged through it all.
Now aside from those who say they were "under a spell or sumin" Still.
I've been through my share, now, I was not however anything like this, about money rather than time spent or not spent with this person.
I think guys, that includes younger men, should be weary of such things.
If you are not prepared, you will not see what is coming.
so all I can advise, is, ask. Go to your dad, mom, family, cousin, a good friend.
Heck even a stranger like me. I'd listen to yah sob story. Is sometimes all we have left. Stories.
i'm not gonna get played, but i do feel sorry for those that do. you set up your own situations and therefore you have to deal with them. it's the guys fault for falling for a player, but shame on the gold digger.
It is the fault of both parties really , the man for being a simp and not thinking with his cranial head ( why I like my detached and a bit cynical nature... it's protection ! ) and the woman for being a manipulative leech.
You can really only blame the person doing it and the laws that make it possible. Laws should protect against that not allow it.
Men sign the papers.
I feel worse for poorer and dumber guys from shitty areas who try to “save” trash women they live around than I do idiot millionaires who literally have hundreds of choices.
A man being a millionaire won’t give him a ton of choices
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Barring that tramps date for money... Money gives you so many more opportunities. You can do things that others can’t always do that make you more attractive: fix your teeth, buy gym equipment, travel, have nice fitting clothes, afford to go on nice dates, etc.
No one will know a person is a millionaire unless they are wearing expensive shit. Even the people that do still aren’t rich. But if they do that is their own fault if people try to them their for money.
That’s exactly what I’m saying.
*use them
Women's fault. Are we really going to blame the victim? Not cool.
“Victim” you guys shouldn’t be using money to get women like dumbasses
"gold-diggers are the wife-beaters for men."
-Bill Burr
Dude is right
You can't blame the women because she didn't force him to pick her. The man picked her, then that's his problem.
Pick a better decent woman to be with.
Wrong, that's like when a man beat a woman and we blamed her for picking him.
@whatever6846: She picked the man to be with. No one forced her.
It's the woman's fault of course! But for the man to be such a dumbass like this to let her use him then throw him out and milk his money shows his stupidity
It's the men's fault for using their little heads instead of using their big heads.
Being a player is someone's own fault (choice). Being played by is yours.
Have you ever been played?
So if a woman wants to get rich just marry a guy with a lot of money then divorce him.
Every person is responsible for their own behavior. A concept most women just can't handle.
#AthenaMulti
Justifying women using men, but has a problem when men return the favour.
Clearly an #AthenaMulti justifying women using men and blaming men for 'being stupid', despite posting questions like 'Why do guys enter relationships if they aren't going to be loyal?', like why are women stupid enough to be with these guys in the first place.
Wow, an #AthenaMulti that didn't delete an opinion. Typical man-hating like always. Constantly complaining and having a go at men, but justifying women using them. Don't complain about guys cheating either, blame the women who are stupid enough to date them.
Uh what’s wrong with you? You seem very bitter:
I'm pretty sure you're a certain user who always posts man-hating questions. If you aren't her, then oops, sorry, lol.
Uh no, I just really don’t like how guys tell each other to use money to attract women who are gold diggers, but then complain about gold diggers! Like wtf?
Okay then, but aren't the women to blame for being gold diggers anyway, like if it's actually part of the agreement, like a sugar daddy thing, then fine, I guess. Couldn't you justify men cheating on women and blame the women for that, because they weren't forced to enter a relationship with the guy? Both would be entering the relationship for unethical reasons.
No not at all, as I said only gold diggers are attracted to money, you guys wants to use money to attract them, then complain? No. I don’t want to hear it. And the sugar daddy/mama thing is just sad.
Both are unethical though, so both are bad, unless that's part of the agreement, regardless of whether or not one agrees with the sugar daddy thing, because there are people out there who do things like that. I agree with your point about flashing money and all, but you can't say the women aren't to blame for being unethical, like they're clearly just using someone like that, not nice.
Why you trying to justify women using men, but have a problem with men returning the favour?
Like I said. If you guys want to be fools and use money to get gold diggers, don’t complain about them. What you’re trying to compare it to is stupid. Bye.
Why can't you answer my point? It's not hard. Explain why it's stupid, instead running away. You probably can't and are an #AthenaMulti, that's why. The one time you didn't delete every opinion you disagree with and look at how it worked out, lol. So you gonna answer or what? Let me guess feminazi? Or you go around saying you're not one, but support it and consider it to be a great thing? 😂😂
No answer, huh? #AthenaMulti confirmed.
And Another one bites the dust
Trashy manipulative girls everywhere.. Sad.. Their hell on earth..
It's the courts fault for having such stupid laws
It’s the men’s fault for being so stupid
There are men willing to pay them
Both. It takes two to tango.
Now a days men shouldn’t marry
Neither. It's their parents' and teachers' fault
It's their own fault, no one else.
Is it a woman's fault when men play women for sex?
Men can’t play women for sex. Sex is sex. It’s not something only one person gets.
I should reword this, is it a woman's fault when a man pretends to want a relationship but just uses her for sex and leaves?
No one can use someone for sex unless they are being raped.
You're missing the point, nevermind.
both are responsible for getting screwed over
Pimps and whores.
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