Is she losing interest or should I just give her space?

[Anonymous]

Ive known this girl for about a month, everything has been going great up we went on a couple dates and everything went well. until a few days ago, When I asked her out a third time she gave a legit reasons why she couldn't do anything that night, but what worries me is the lack of communication and the lack of reply, I once texted an important questions and she didn't bother replying back even though she got it that night...so my question is, Is it possible for a girl to just completely lose interest in a guy (that she's known for about a month, and enjoyed) in the time frame of 48 hours? Or am I over thinking it and does she just need her space?

[NinaLove]

There's some key information missing here--are the two of you in school or working full time? What's her schedule like? And if you had an important question then why did you not do it face to face? In a relationship, irregardless of what era we are in, technology cannot substitute for the emotion of sincerity, love or validity of the heart. Some girls, even today, if you texted her a question about your relationship or wanting to make plans might be a put off with the whole lack of "real" effort. Now, you need to take some time and review those dates that you had with her because something may have been said or done ever so slightly but you being a guy could have been blatantly obvious to others that you missed the clue or clues. As for the quick turn around in feelings that is an absolute yes! If she's one of those types that will give a guy a try and after a couple of attempts it's just not sitting well with her, she will choose to ignore him in hopes that he gets the hint and moves on. By the time you've read this you may have already approached her and hopefully in person. If she was standoffish, then she's not that into you. And if she has not given you a direct response then this is where technology becomes your best friend. Text and ask straight out if you had done anything to turn her off, if she is just not interested or is she just busy. Let her know that you did enjoy yourself and hopefully she did too, if not you apologize and it is cool if she does not want to go out with you again. Be sincere. Good Luck

[lacy192]

i would leave her for a about 3 days and if you have not heard anything then text her casually to see how she's doing? she will wonder why you haven't bothered that's for sure. Maybe she likes you to chase her and plays a little hard to get. I would give her some space and then see what happens. if you don't get a reply then, then you will have your answer. good luck

[K8888]

Just wait it out SOMETIMES things really do happen that make us busy, however, if she doesn't respond within a few days, then ask her out again like nothing ever happened. Cause if she's not into you THAT much you don't wanna be that creepy guy asking "Were you trying to ignore me. Etc.) After you ask her out again, you'll get your answer.

[LoobyLou]

I think you might be over-thinking it but hey - we've all been there! I agree with others - would give her a bit of space for a couple of days and then get back in touch and see what happens from there.

[unkownlove_05]

this happens in many occasions but you should set her some space be the bigger person in this situation ; sometime giving someone space is the best thing to do don't take things to much out of a hand and keep texting her because she will think that is some obesession going on but be mature about it and give her space time itself will tell you what you need to know wither she's ment for you or not always think postive thought thinking negitive can be harmful : ) good luck

[Anonymous]

Overthinking I would suggest but sometimes girls do have a quick turnaround in their feelings!

I wonder if it was the question itself that she was ignoring? If she was busy she may just have forgot to reply