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I think most of them are needy drama queens. And I think the same of most guys who behave similarly.
I feel sad for people that seek attention to be honest. They say that people that seek the most attention are the most loneliest and left out. They sometimes need a bit of love, you can also look at it from that angle :)
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Girls, is this you in this video, are you like this? ↗
Well they aren't seeking my attention so I don't really care
What if it was someone seeking you're attention? What would you do? Would you give them what they want or no?
Nope
Lol all guys are like this...😒 What if she's lonely, has no one to talk to and wants you're company?
I'm lonely too and no one cares.
If she want to talk to me she can use words instead of expecting me to play detective and pick up on her hints
Well see, what you don't realise is girls approach guys they want to Interact with. And loads of guys that I've seen have none of it. They Just flat out Ignore her whenever she wants to talk, saying that she's ranting and rambling, and that they don't give a shit about her and her rants. Then say that she "Seeks attention" and that when attention comes with a price he'll give her his. How do you explain this then?
From what I've gathered all guys only give attention to girls if it benefits them in some way or if something is in it for them.
So you tell me, how is she supposed to talk to him if he's already Ignoring her? Obviously her last bet would be to "Seek attention" because she's being Ignored and left out.
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I dont know about other men, but if a woman wants my attention it's usually because they want me to do something for them. Sorry but I'm not your servant. And I did pay attention to women who I was friends with. I helped them when they needed help, and listened to their problems and when one of them went to rehab I came and visited her.
None of them talk to me anymore, because I guess they no longer need my help. So why would I give women attention if thats what I get in return?
I'm not your servant.
The article tells me nothing I don't already know.
Personally speaking I never treat any guy the way you describe. It's usually guys that take advantage of me and decide to step all over me that see me as nothing. They Just talk and give attention if they get something in return like money or stuff like that.
But what you're saying right now also happened to me one time and I'm still not over it, I also had a guy friend we also kept talking while he was getting my help out of it. Obviously when my reciprocation stopped he dropped me like a hot potato. And when I confronted him he also admitted that he only gavs me his time and attention while something was in it for him.
He acted very rude after that, basically he knew how to bring a girl close when he wanted something from her, and knew how to push her away when he got what he wanted. You see he never used to cuss at me before because he knew that would send me running. But I was actually shocked when he called me such words, I had no Idea he had guts to say that.
And ever since then I never saw him again, so basically I got used and then got dumped like trash. My existence is Ignored now, he doesn't care if I live or die. He said it straight to my face. So I Just got taken advantage of. And it seems like we have gone through the same situation. And what I'm trying to say is that guys and girls both do this.
Except taking advantage, using and dumping happens mostly with girls. Because guys for some reason see them as more vulnerable. So in other words I understand why you feel so defensive because this sort of stuff happened to you in the past, you've been used and dumped. I also got used and dumped.
Also not all women are the same, there are sincere people in the world. You can't Just say that all women are going to use you and dump you. Because that's like me saying every guy that I meet is also planning to use me and dump me. When not every guy is like that...😔
I'm not saying all women are like that.
I'm saying that I just don't care anymore.
Okay... fine...😴
The only advice I can give you here is to not lose hope, because it seems like you've given up...
Yea well, such is life
What has made you so insecure? Live in your right skin.
Nothing has made me Insecure. Why do you say that? It's Just a question lol
You are asking so much of similar stuff so it's apparent. Also it seems like you could not get a guy you wanted or he rejected you so you seem asking this..
I've been Rejected by no one, neither am I upset about anything. A topic is a topic.
You mean like 90% of women?
Not really. Only some of them are like that.
Yeah they're all the same except some do it more than others and are more persistent. The quantity is different and varies from girl to girl. You can't really blame them for seeking it though it's Just human nature.
@DarkxAngel20 Hahaha wrong! We're all the same bro, and this is coming from myself as a girl. It's Just that the amount and quantity is different, and half of us are more persistent at it. But the good thing is we don't live and thrive on it all day long or every single day...😂😂
Well in case of the last pic, girls do seek more attention !
Lol were you going to say that they don't seek attention before you saw that pic? 😂😂
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I hate people who so obviously seek attention and they always seem to get it
Lol that's because people aren't so quick to pick up that someone's seeking attention. They don't notice because they are fixated or distracted by other stuff that's more obvious. But everyone's done it one point or another, we Just don't realise that we have...
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if a girl seeks attention. I'd use that to my benefit.
How would you use that to you're benefit? In what way could that benefit you? Lol if you're warning go take advantage then thats mean...
one word: "annoying"
Haha of course it is...😂😂
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Most will give it, I'll probably wouldn't care!
Why wouldn't you care?
@Shafaq_Mahnoor96 why would or should I?
No one's forcing you to care, but why wouldn't you give you're attention? What if that girl is lonely and has no one to talk to which is why she seeks attention? What if she Just wants to talk?
@Shafaq_Mahnoor96 wooh.. That was quick.! Were you dead or what? How would anyone know what the girl is looking for if she just wants a friend she should stop playing the stupid games and start talking to people..
Well see, that's exactly what she would be trying to do. She'd already be seeking attention by already talking to you. It's not called playing games, it's called looking to get noticed. Loads of guys don't even want to give attention unless something is in it for them, otherwise it's Just a waste of time talking to her. Can you explain this then? 😕
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Of course it's written by a women. She herself is seeking attention by writing the arrival on the "topic". But the fact is its people's choice/freedom wheather they want to give a damn it not. If they don't want to they will not or should not.. They are not obligated or supposed to do anything that they're not intrested in or don't want to.
Lol that is so sadistic. If you don't want to give a person you're time that needs company and is lonely, then you'll be labelled as a Jerk by society. It's as simple as that. And you're also trying to call me an "Attention seeker" Just because I asked this question? How dare you...🤥
Your just typical child minded stubborn female.
Why? 😭😭 I Just start reality...💔
*stated
Don't as long as its aimed at me ….
And what if it is aimed at you? What would you do and why?
You have to react to it , I enjoy the attention but, in most cases its sex driven and I prefer a kiss and a cuddle …...
That's literally every woman I've ever seen.
Hahaha true, you're comment made me laugh a bit for some reason. The amount and quantity is Just different and varies between us. But you can't blame us for doing it, it's Just human nature to want to feel loved and wanted...
Attention seekers are no better than hos. Trash.
Lol attention seekers and hoes are different. They're not the same if that's what you're thinking. It's usually the loneliest and left out ones that seek it. Try looking at it from that angle too...
They are one step off. Their motivations are the same. Male approval. One can switch from an attention seeker to a ho with the snap of my fingers.
What if she's doing it because she feels lonely, has no one to talk to and wants you're company? Honestly, the more you Ignore the more she'll seek it...🤷🏻♀️
No it means she has a mental defect. On to the next.
Wow, that is so Ignorant of you to say lol... she has no mental defect she's lonely. Get over it! It's guys like you that trigger me.
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Exactly, its a sign of mental illness.
Lol try checking out the link first before you Judge...
Put her in solitary confinement for 6 months
Why? 😂😂
I avoid them as much as possible
How come? Don't you think they feel lonely Inside? Or left out even?
I don't want to be waiting 3 hours to go out the door because she can't deside what to wear and need to fix her hair and what not. I don't want to be the guy that takes 5 million picture of her and non is perfect. I don't want to see her so badly want to be in the middle of everything. I want a more manageable girl.
Lol that's a different type of attention seeking. Not every type of attention seeking is bad or negative. You Just completely Ignored my question haha what if she's lonely and has no one to talk to?
Have happened every now and then I talk to people I normally don't talk to. And what often happens is they seek my guidance and I'm slightly feed up with that. I'm not a life coach, but anyway
Well maybe they approached you because you offered great advice, even though you're not a life coach. So would you give her attention if it was for that reason or no?
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For that moment of advice is attention enough
How about if she was lonely, had no one to talk to and wants you're company?
Then we can talk about anything as long as it's interesting
It's lucky that you aren't like that. Most guys refuse to give any attention to a girl if they think they don't get anything out if it. Basically for selfish reasons. Almost every guy does this, I've given up to be honest...😴. I'm kind of happy that not all guys are like that, but be honest they're rare to find...
Girls are humans, I talk to humans
And so? What does that have anything to do with it?
Needy. No thanks.
How come? It's usually always the most lonely and left out ones that seek attention. They could Just be doing it to get noticed so they don't feel so excluded. There's really other angles and perspectives you can look at it from too...
Because that would be suffocating. Everyone needs space, no matter how close they are to someone.
Lol I'm not saying that that you would need to give them attention 24/7. Because obviously she would also get sick and tired of you, Just as much as you'd get sick and tired of her. What if she's lonely, has no one to talk to and Just wants you're company?
Then I’ll cuddle her and comfort her.
Aww ❤ Why isn't there any guys like you in the world? 😭💔
Haha I just happen to be very emotional.
I'm glad you're *emotional*, don't feel bad for being emotional. There's not many guys left in the world like you...
I noticed. I embrace my emotions.
And so you should, being in a world where there's lack of respect, selfishness and cruelness and then not being Influenced to do the same is a really strong thing to do 😊
Ready to take on a drive.
Drive to?
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Makes you feel sick? Lol
Maybe how to answers this
Does your stink star stinks bad?
My astrological star you mean? My sun sign? My sun sign is Aries if that's a yes lol and I'm not sure if it stinks or not haha
Despise them
Lol 😂😂 why's that? Elaborate...
I forgot about this post lol. But it all depends on the attention. If its just to get noticed and expect us to start drooling. While they are doing it to plainly get noticed. No. I dont like it. Makes me feel like im being used. But if its for a reason or hinting to chat or get to know you more. Sure im down
What if she's lonely, doesn't have no one to talk to and wants to talk? Most guys I've seen don't give attention no matter what. Even if she's lonely, the Just don't care. The only reason they ever give it is if something is in it for them, otherwise they think talking to her and giving her attention is a complete waste of time. I have no Idea why all guys I've seen are like this... but all I have to say is they're all alike which annoys me 😒
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What? 😂