Dude you're totally right. One time my dad got a fuckin buttload of sawdust in his eyes and they started watering, yknow as the body's natural method of washing debri out of your eyes. I totally lost respect for him at that moment.
You are NOT a man if you're body still functions NATURALLY in that specific way. Being able to see and have good blood pressure is for the WEAK
You sound like a very damaged individual from your annoyance with men crying. If this is so than you are weak because you hide your emotions because you care if someone else thinks your a man or not, which is cowardly.
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You seem incredibly worried about proving you are "a real man"... you've said that about yourself multiple times in this thread. I know this is kinda the opposite of what you intended, but you're coming across as someone who is very fearful. I'm guessing you didn't have the easiest life. You didn't deserve that, I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't think you should be ashamed of yourself.
Ufc fighter Daniel Cormier who had been Heavyweight Champion cried after getting ko'd by his rival. And he definitely isn't weak, sure crying can sometimes be very embarrassing in some places, but some situations are allowed for men to cry, just make sure you're alone or with close family and or friends, and it being a good reason like, someone you were close to died or something.
Everyone cries at something. Family, friends or pets passing on, extreme injuries (getting shot, stabbed, etc), sad scenes in movies, reading a book that could have a sad ending. Your family can say hurtful things that can destroy your feelings.
Point is - something will make you cry unless you are a heart of stone, unfeeling, uncaring, psycho sick creature from hell.
I disagree, guys can show emotions as long as they don't cry over little things but like if someone close to them dies, cry it would make you feel better if you wouldn't cry aboiuit something like then your are hartless, and girls like guys that can show emotion
I respectfully but absolutely disagree, men should show boys it's absolutely ok to be in touch with their feelings, men so often repress ourselves and don't seek help, this is why we don't live as long as women and are three times more likely to commit suicide,,, As time goes on, society becomes more matriarchal, this is not a bad thing imho,,,
It's not weak for men to cry. Imagine if a father had to witness his child's last breath. And don't say "You don't need to cry to show emotion."I'm pretty sure if my mother died and I was at her funeral I would get over my ego and actually show emotion. People who try this hard to be a real man don't do themselves any favors whatsoever.
i agree. but I've been raised around a what you say "real man." so when a man cries... I don't know how to respond. but I mean.. I don't think theyre pussies... I just think its strange.
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No. Men are humans, humans cry; men have feelings, emotions, moods as every human being; unless you are fucking badass killing machine, you can cry. Even animals cry!
For all these women saying that a man shouldn't cry at all...
If he doesn't cry when faced with the serious realization that you're leaving him, then he probably doesn't really love you.
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The first time I honestly cried on a girl. When it was over I felt… almost weightless. It was like a huge burden was off of me. In fact I felt stronger.
I think women who make men suppress themselves make men weaker.
I'd rake a bat and beat you so hard that you would not be man anymore. Whydo you havea need to shit over emotional people? Man are still just a human being! Itis so obvious you have daddy issues. You were probably a bully in younger years.
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I wouldn't want to be with a guy if he was incapable of crying. I wouldn't want to see him crying all the time but if he did cry about something maybe it would show he was deep and sensitive. I like guys who are in touch with their feminine side and not afraid to show it or feel ashamed about it
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I am a gay guy so I offer a different perspective here. I don't like camp guys never have never will. I prefer manly men but I think it is ok for anyone to be emotional and cry at times if the situation is worthy.
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Dude you're totally right. One time my dad got a fuckin buttload of sawdust in his eyes and they started watering, yknow as the body's natural method of washing debri out of your eyes. I totally lost respect for him at that moment.
You are NOT a man if you're body still functions NATURALLY in that specific way. Being able to see and have good blood pressure is for the WEAK
You sound like a very damaged individual from your annoyance with men crying. If this is so than you are weak because you hide your emotions because you care if someone else thinks your a man or not, which is cowardly.
You seem incredibly worried about proving you are "a real man"... you've said that about yourself multiple times in this thread. I know this is kinda the opposite of what you intended, but you're coming across as someone who is very fearful. I'm guessing you didn't have the easiest life. You didn't deserve that, I'm sorry that happened to you. I don't think you should be ashamed of yourself.
Ufc fighter Daniel Cormier who had been Heavyweight Champion cried after getting ko'd by his rival. And he definitely isn't weak, sure crying can sometimes be very embarrassing in some places, but some situations are allowed for men to cry, just make sure you're alone or with close family and or friends, and it being a good reason like, someone you were close to died or something.
Everyone cries at something. Family, friends or pets passing on, extreme injuries (getting shot, stabbed, etc), sad scenes in movies, reading a book that could have a sad ending. Your family can say hurtful things that can destroy your feelings.
Point is - something will make you cry unless you are a heart of stone, unfeeling, uncaring, psycho sick creature from hell.
I disagree, guys can show emotions as long as they don't cry over little things but like if someone close to them dies, cry it would make you feel better if you wouldn't cry aboiuit something like then your are hartless, and girls like guys that can show emotion
I completely disagree. I think a guy that cries and shows emotion is a huge turn on!
I respectfully but absolutely disagree, men should show boys it's absolutely ok to be in touch with their feelings, men so often repress ourselves and don't seek help, this is why we don't live as long as women and are three times more likely to commit suicide,,,
As time goes on, society becomes more matriarchal, this is not a bad thing imho,,,
It's not weak for men to cry. Imagine if a father had to witness his child's last breath. And don't say "You don't need to cry to show emotion."I'm pretty sure if my mother died and I was at her funeral I would get over my ego and actually show emotion. People who try this hard to be a real man don't do themselves any favors whatsoever.
I don't agree because tears are and have never been a sign of weakness.
I think you secretly cry when no one is watching you :D
I have a little Native-American blood in me, and I only shed a single tear if I see someone litter.
no crying is not necessarily weak. it just depends on what they are crying for
i agree. but I've been raised around a what you say "real man." so when a man cries... I don't know how to respond. but I mean.. I don't think theyre pussies... I just think its strange.
No. Men are humans, humans cry; men have feelings, emotions, moods as every human being; unless you are fucking badass killing machine, you can cry. Even animals cry!
Lol... Eeesh harsh!!
For all these women saying that a man shouldn't cry at all...
If he doesn't cry when faced with the serious realization that you're leaving him, then he probably doesn't really love you.
The first time I honestly cried on a girl. When it was over I felt… almost weightless. It was like a huge burden was off of me. In fact I felt stronger.
I think women who make men suppress themselves make men weaker.
I'd rake a bat and beat you so hard that you would not be man anymore. Whydo you havea need to shit over emotional people? Man are still just a human being! Itis so obvious you have daddy issues. You were probably a bully in younger years.
I wouldn't want to be with a guy if he was incapable of crying. I wouldn't want to see him crying all the time but if he did cry about something maybe it would show he was deep and sensitive. I like guys who are in touch with their feminine side and not afraid to show it or feel ashamed about it
I am a gay guy so I offer a different perspective here. I don't like camp guys never have never will. I prefer manly men but I think it is ok for anyone to be emotional and cry at times if the situation is worthy.
No, I think emotions can’t be controlled and it’s better to cry than shoot people