Is there something going on between them two?

[Anonymous]

They are really good friends. I’ll call her Charlotte and him Jack.

In my collage dorm there was me, Jack, two of jacks friends and my friend who is good friends with charlotte. We were all chilling out and the boys were playing “nutball” one of the boys went to throw the ball into Jacks nuts but Charlotte stood in the way and went “no, absolutely not” he smiled at her and then his friend threw the ball at Jacks face and Charlotte went “not his face... But not his dick either just leave him alone. Testosterone levels are high today holy shit” and they laughed. I asked Charlotte if her and Jack were together but she said “no we are just friends” so I don’t know. What do you guys think? I’m asking because Jack is really good looking but I want to know if Charlotte and him have a thing.

[Minkus88]

The biggest question is: Why does this matter to you? I know I'm sounding a bit rude, and that's not how I'm intending to come off as.

What I actually mean is, do you have feelings for either Jack or Charlotte? If you do, does the person you have feelings for know that you have feelings for them?

[Asker]

I like jack as I said he’s really good looking, sweet and funny and I have feelings for him

[Minkus88]

I gotcha. Have you told him that you've been interested in possibly becoming more than friends?

[Asker]

No but I said to Charlotte “I like him, I’m going to make a move” but she said “now not a good time... he’s really busy with work and stuff at the moment”

[Minkus88]

Ah... It certainly sounds like there may be something going on, but without more to go on, it's hard to tell.

Have you flirted with him at all?

[Asker]

I’ve flirted with him once when I giggled and touched his arm and said “your so funny” But he didn’t even notice and just kept looking at Charlotte

[Minkus88]

Ah. Yeah, I believe there may be something going on between them, unfortunately.

[Asker]

It really pissed me off it was like he was seeing how he reacted rather then noticing how I reacted 😂

[Minkus88]

The only thing you can do right now? Build an emotional connection with him. A close friendship, I mean. The closer you two get, the more he'll think about being with you over Charlotte.

[Asker]

Okay, I’ll try but what if him and Charlotte are a thing?

[Minkus88]

Don't pay it any mind. Seriously, don't think about it. Easier said than done, I know. Just build an emotional connection and don't force anything. He'll eventually feel more for you than anyone else.

[Derick529]

There seems to be something there but its not clear. You should try asking "Jack" to see if something is going on. Apparently there's some sort of "attraction", you need to get more information.

[Asker]

It’s just the way she looked at him when she said “not his face” and “not his dick” made me think otherwise. He was also cuddling her last night when she was upset about something personal and when we were laying watching a movie they were laid together and he had his arm round her (maybe because she was still upset). They are always joking around as friends do and they are often taking the piss out of one another like friends but sometimes, like today and yesterday, they act like more than that

[Asker]

I’ve also tried flirting with jack. I giggled, touched his arm and said “your so funny” but he didn’t even noticed and just looked at Charlotte as he was seeing how she reacted

[Derick529]

And that's were things started to look like something's there but it needs more information (as in find out what's really going on). For now it looks like "friends" until they confess and/or you find out.

[Derick529]

How many times have you flirted with "Jack"? it has to be different times in different styles. Remember that most guys can't pick up some hints. That flirting that you did to him could be seemed like something "akward", try making it a little bit more clear. How did she reacted?

[Asker]

I have done it a few other times and she just laughed at his joke not even noticing either

[Derick529]

Try talking to him alone and give him some indirect hint to see if he gets it. If this fails (he doesn't get it) the you'll have to be more direct with him (if you're ok with that). That's an odd reaction from her though.

[Jjpayne]

I'd watch them but there's honestly no way of knowing until you ask

[Asker]

Okay, it’s just the way she looked at him when she said “not his face” and “not his dick” made me think otherwise. He was also cuddling her last night when she was upset about something personal and when we were laying watching a movie they were laid together and he had his arm round her (maybe because she was still upset). They are always joking around as friends do and they are often taking the piss out of one another like friends but sometimes, like today and yesterday, they act like more than that.

[Steve37]

It's hard to say from what you said. I'd like to think that a friend of mine wouldn't want me to get hit in the face or balls either even if there want something between us.

[Asker]

but the way she looked at him when she said “not his face” and “not his dick” made me think otherwise. He was also cuddling her last night when she was upset about something personal and when we were laying watching a movie they were laid together and he had his arm round her (maybe because she was still upset). They are always joking around as friends do and they are often taking the piss out of one another like friends but sometimes, like today and yesterday, they act like more than that.

[Steve37]

It'ss probably more than just friends

[Asker]

So when she was joking around going “no not his dick either” did she mean that like ‘no I need that to be able to fuck him’ or like ‘no he needs that to be able to have kids with his future wife’?

[Steve37]

It could be either. I'm guessing she wants to fuck him if they aren't already fucking.

[Asker]

If they are fucking do you think it’s serious? Just based off of how they act around one another

[Steve37]

It sounds like if they're fucking it's just having fun right now. It might get serious though.

[Asker]

But they way they were cuddling when she was upset and stuff. You can tell they care about one another. I just don’t wanna start flirting and making moves if he’s with her

[Steve37]

Why don't you just ask her?

[Asker]

I asked if they were a thing and she said “no we are just friends”

[Steve37]

Just to make sure, you should ask her if she minds you making a move on him.

[Asker]

I asked her yesterday and she said “nows not a good time... he’s quite busy with work and stuff so I wouldn’t if I were you”

[Steve37]

Sounds like she's into him and wants to keep you away

[Asker]

I thought that and wondered if it was one sided so got a guy friend to tell him he’s into Charlotte while I was there and he said “oh I-I wouldn’t make any moves she-she’s not looking for anything right now”

[Steve37]

Hmmm... sounds like they are getting it on and trying to keep it quiet.

[Asker]

Ugh. Do you reckon it’s just sex? Or love and sex?

[Steve37]

Probably just sex right now but they think it might become more.

[MannySimms]

None of your business. Period.

[Big-A]

The only thing we know for certain there is you are missing out.

[Asker]

Am I? Is there something going on between them?

[Ephemera1]

Tf how r we supposed to know ya3ni wth

[COMMODOREII]

Why can't friends care about each other?

[Asker]

It’s just the way she looked at him when she said “not his face” and “not his dick” made me think otherwise. He was also cuddling her last night when she was upset about something personal and when we were laying watching a movie they were laid together and he had his arm round her (maybe because she was still upset). They are always joking around as friends do and they are often taking the piss out of one another like friends but sometimes, like today and yesterday, they act like more than that

[COMMODOREII]

Im. not saying they do not love each other because it is evident. I love my friends and i am still friends with my first girlfriend. We still love each other very much even though she has a family now. We are like family. So i just don't see a problem with it.

[Asker]

Because i like jack and want to know if he has a thing with her

[COMMODOREII]

Why don't you ask him? And tell him you want to date him?

[Asker]

I told Charlotte but she said “now is not a good time... he’s busy with work”

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah i see what you mean now

[HarryDogra]

Yes definitely..
Kill them..

[outside_Toronto]

They most likely do

[Asker]

They could only be friends but the way she looked at him when she said “not his face” and “not his dick” made me think otherwise. He was also cuddling her last night when she was upset about something personal and when we were laying watching a movie they were laid together and he had his arm round her (maybe because she was still upset). They are always joking around as friends do and they are often taking the piss out of one another like friends but sometimes, like today and yesterday, they act like more than that.

[outside_Toronto]

Rest assured; guys and girls cannot be friends. Ever

[Asker]

So when she was joking around going “no not his dick either” did she mean that like ‘no I need that to be able to fuck him’ or like ‘no he needs that to be able to have kids with his future wife’?

[outside_Toronto]

no idea; you'd have to ask her

[Asker]

I asked her if they were a thing but she said “no we are just friends”

[outside_Toronto]

So she's a liar... ok great