Why are women surprised guys are insecure about height when this is their attitude?

[Anonymous]

Women ALWAYS take moral high ground when it comes to being shallow. They make it seem like their obligated to me instead of admitting they just are.

At least shallow men admit it and own it instead of blaming making it seem it's a duty if theirs.

[WellDone]

That mostly happens only if the girl is pretty high herself. And I am cautious about my height. I have never dated girl higher then me, but even if she is close to my height I feel cautious. I have never told any of them about how I feel and they always tell me how great is it that i am 6.1 feet tall. But I guess they must feel similar while being taller, like something isn't right.

In my case, I feel insecure, because I don't feel in power. In childhood I had anxieties, I've been bullied and other stuff, which make me pretty insecure either way.

So you shouldn't judge girls if they feel fed up with whining or insecure guys. And again I don't do that, playing it cool. :D

So both guys and girls shouldn't judge each other and generalize. Because not all the girls are shallow and not all the guys are intimidated by you.

[Asker]

They claim to be all about perosnality yet ALL her bio is demanding physical features that we have 0 control over

[Asker]

Then they shouldn't ever judge men about anything ever then , I'll stop when they stop

[Asker]

Your 6'1 ofc you get w/e the fuck you want. You're like a rich person telling a poor one, "just don't be poor" go fuck yourself

[WellDone]

I believe we have control over some. And I never said some aren't.

[WellDone]

Well, I didn't have much luck with the ladies. I had Asperger's syndrome when I was younger. Now it is not noticeable, but I do still struggle. :D Everyone values something different in a person and everyone has different values, so embrace those. Or look for shorter women.

[Asker]

Shut the fuck up and die. You look for shorter women then, you don't k ow what it's like having to fight for scraps when you had everything on a silver spoon, the you fucking preech like you understand.

[Asker]

You must me a trump supporter

[WellDone]

Firstly you should really stop just complaining. Height isn't the only thing girls are looking for, you should be a man and work on yourself. It might be true I will have it easier and don't know it yet because I am only 19. But complaining about it won't make a difference. And what you just said, about me dying, I think you are quite toxic and that definitely isn't a plus.

Secondly, I am from Slovakia so it is not possible for me to vote Trump.

[Asker]

"that's not all they want" look at her FUCKING profile.

How is calling out your patronizing bullshit toxic? I do fucking work for what I have unlike you.

You're 19 and because you're tall you get to talk down to me? Fuck you, you never worked for shit.

[Asker]

0 humbleness

[WellDone]

I hope you will read it whole again, when you are calm. It's my opinion no one says, you have to like it.

[Asker]

Elitist fuck

[WellDone]

How flattering

[Redstang88]

In my time on dating apps, I’ve only ever seen that a few times and have never been asked. There are a few girls that are stuck up bitches like that, but you don’t want anything to do with them anyway.
Being confident with what you’ve got is gonna go a lot future than being insecure, whiny crybaby.

[jeemm]

Some people have extreme preferences and / or are picky. If you take that the wrong way and make it into a generalization then you're delusional.

[Asker]

Literally every other profile is like that, why gas light me to try to make it seem like it's only one girl.

Look at dating trends, looks how attractive women find men based on height, data fucking supports it.

[jeemm]

I'm not making an argument about the statistics. I'm just speaking about the majority of women. People who go on dating apps are looking for people based on appearances.

[Asker]

Then why take any woman who uses apps seriously when they complain about men not liking them and bring shallow or trash? Why do they get backed by other women instead of understanding of the put themselves in that position?

[jeemm]

Bring shallow or trash? Understanding of the put? I can't comprehend your thoughts when your grammar is so broken.

But I wouldn't take any woman seriously if they complained about such things. And I've never seen or heard that someone has acted that way.

[Asker]

Now you're being a cunt about typos to spite me. Normal humans with basic understanding are actually able to read through typos

[jeemm]

I guess I'm not normal then, my native language isn't English so I'm sorry. But why am I being a cunt?

[Asker]

You assume I have 0 English comprehension based on a few typos and assume I intentionally did that to attack me as being less than you. I stead of asking "are those typos" or "can you please rewrite that, I didn't get it" you jump to "your grammar is broken"

[Asker]

Typical woman, lack of empathy, and understanding.

[jeemm]

Typo or not typo it was broken grammar. How it happened doesn't make any difference and I never meant it as an attack but as a statement.

[Asker]

Fine cunt, any thing constructive to add or you're just gonna nitpick words?

[Asker]

BEING shallow and trash* understanding they put themselves in that position*

[Asker]

Happy you spiteful fucking cunt?

[jeemm]

Typical subjugated crybaby trying to get back his respect that the evil women and all the alpha males took from you am I right? Make your own happiness and stop taking everything as an attack.

[Asker]

Go suck Trump's dick

[Asker]

You're a typically fucking Republican. Can't listen. When you're being raped I hope someone tells you "make your own happiness" as a solution

[jeemm]

I don't belong to any political party, not do I care about the politics of other countries. I don't see how that is even relevant to the conversation even distantly.

[jeemm]

Rape has nothing to do with happiness. If I was happy with my life before the rape I'd still be happy about the same things after the rape.

[jeemm]

nor do I care*

[Asker]

So all peole upset are just choosing it. You think mental health if fake. Typical

[jeemm]

Do hit me with the "so you're saying". I'm not saying mental health is fake or have I ever implied it. Happiness is the result of understanding, mental fortitude and acceptance. At least the part we've been talking about. If you're not willing to move on and can't see things in ways other than your own then you're just stuck with the feeling that comes from that situation. You choose your own happiness. Either you stick with things that makes you sad or you move on or improve your life.

[Asker]

Fine, so since when a women can get a tall man, she can complain blame all men and join groups to force men to to chance to fit her feelings.

What groups should I join to force women to change to my wants and needs?

[jeemm]

Force men to change their feelings? How is that done? Teach me too. I'd love to control over half of the human population. Also if women blame you from something just ignore them. Just curious about they've blamed you for.

[Asker]

Join femenists they'll fight to make men liable for everything

[jeemm]

For example? Feminists are just triggered loudmouths as far as I know. They've never achieved anything but hate for the concept of feminism.

[Asker]

If a woman Demands tall men and ends up dating a guy who only wants to sleep a around and is up front and tells her, she'll cry that she's being used and manipulated and everyone will shit on that guy and men overall and call them all trash

[jeemm]

But if he sleeps around he is trash? Just because you say you will do something it doesn't make it any more justifiable. And for the girl who started crying about it she is an absolutely shithead as well for starting a relationship with such a person.

[Asker]

So a guy who is looking for women who want the same thing as his is trash

[Asker]

So you're a supreme catholic that believes in sex only in marriage

[jeemm]

I think people who cheat on other people are trash. Men or women it doesn't matter. I'm an atheist but open to believe in God if he is proven to exist. However another completely irrelevant topic to the conversation.

[Asker]

When the fuck did I say cheat?

[jeemm]

"guy who only wants to sleep a around" Sleeping around is a metaphor for being in a relationship and having sexual relations with other people which means cheating.

[Asker]

Right, but many men tell them men they don't want a relationship just sex, the woman agrees, then cries that he doesn't want a relationship and calls him trash. Sleeping around does not mean cheating here. Cheating means cheating

[Asker]

Sleeping around means wanting casual sex without a relationship.

[jeemm]

Look up the definition of "sleeping around". But like I said before, if a woman willingly goes into relationship with such a guy and then calls him trash the she herself is trash. Why would the guy get into a relationship with a girl who wants a normal relationship in the first place anyway?

[Asker]

I never ONCE said they entered a relationship I LITERALLY said the man does NOT want one.

[Asker]

She agrees to have sex with him when he tells her those things, then cries that he doesn't want a relationship, yet you INSIST on bludgeoning in that they are in relationship. You working against me on purpose and not reading what I'm saying at all

[jeemm]

Well dating. Only a step away from a relationship. My bad. Why are you making this out to be an attack again? I thought you meant a relationship.

[Anonymous]

What if I told you that there are other ways to meet women other than Tinder? Average guys who use Tinder are idiots.

[esotericstory]

Social media and dating apps are full of abusers and sadistic people. It attracts them like a magnet. This has been known for a long time, but not enough has been done about it.

[BoxySama]

I've always been relatively perfect hight, I do not empathize with you little shorties
😂😂😂

[5yrup]

why are men like you such crybabies

[WellDone]

Well, someone at least tries to figure out, why women act as they do instead of calling them bitches.

[Asker]

@5yrup I don't understand how your comment explains anything that I've asked unless your intention is to be a troll.

If it was a genuine reasoning, can you pleas elaborate?

[btbc92]

Maybe because every WOMAN is DIFFERENT?

[SarahsSummer]

are guys insecure about height?

[Iamagoodguy]

Men are humans and humans are insecure about flaws they see in themselves and we'll always seeing and hearing oh you under X hight I'm not interested kinda makes it feel like a flaw

[SarahsSummer]

@Iamagoodguy you need to get rid of your insecurities. Your life will feel better.