Do guys get offended or mad when a girl checks them out in public?

[GennySanders]

Would you get offended if someone you don't know was checking you out in a causal way?

[BuckWild]

I totally hate that shit! When a chick stares at my ass and asks me what I'm doing later, she's indicating that she wants to have sex. Why would she think I would ever be down with that? Chicks casually check me out all the time and I hate it. Women are assholes. All of them.

[GennySanders]

You must mean the easy hookers those are worst hopefully ur juss joking I stare at guys I'm into I'm not stupid & I don't say stupid shit

[BuckWild]

In that case, you have a free pass to look at my ass anytime as much as you want.

[N192K001]

From what I've heard and read, women have a wider range of peripheral-vision and keep their checking-out more subtle than we men do.

Hence, a number of men probably won't even notice… unless the female-viewer makes it obvious or fails to veil the act sufficiently.

[N192K001]

In such cases, the discover is a boost to the ego, which makes personal humility have to work overtime to restore balance and ensure stupid decisions are made due to arrogance.

[GennySanders]

So if a guy catches me & maintains eye contact but breaks it is dat bad

[N192K001]

I don't have enough information to determine that.

What was the facial-expression before, during, and/or after? His overall body-language? Where there any words said (to you, someone else, himself, etc.)?
Any colleagues nearby (his and/or yours)? What did they say during the instance and/or after?

[GennySanders]

Well k saw him walk in wit a female I started looking at him he saw me, I didn't look away cus that's a low move I wasn't lookin at him bad. He broke the eye contact the moment feel really gud to me

[GennySanders]

& he was a few inches afar so I couldn't say nothin

[N192K001]

If he didn't show disgust (ex turning his body away from you, have a repulsed look on his face, or look annoyed), that shouldn't be bad. (He probably just had to focus on the discussion he was having, which is normal for anyone with manners.) Probably, nothing to worry about.

[GennySanders]

Yeaa so he should really meet my charming self, if he would have been alone I'd prob try to flirt

[GennySanders]

to see his reaction

[btbc92]

Not everybody desires to be lusted after. Not me for a man. It shouldn't happen in the first place. Because it makes others uncomfortable. Other guys are either desperate for sex, or don't care either way.

[GennySanders]

So ur saying if I did that to a boy juss look at him regular he's gonna hate me? Lol

[btbc92]

You don't him. If he does, would it upset you? You have to learn to respect other people regardless of how dumb and stupid it is to you. You treat others how you want to be treated.

[btbc92]

You don't know him. All he knows is that you're staring at him. Your energy can be making him uncomfortable. I am very sensitive to that. Learn about personality types and intuition, there are people who can tell what your doing and your intent. And if they don't like it, they will let you know with nonverbal communication or god forbid throw the curse words at you. Just don't. Body language is important.

[GennySanders]

So I did & he didn't seem to mind actually at least he didn't roll his eyes or something

[btbc92]

But you don't know that. I can smile and give you any kind of reaction I expect you to accept. That doesn't mean I wants uncomfortable. Remember again it's about personality. Rational personalities will often be blunt about it or sometimes rude. Especially at your age, plenty are like that. The ones your referring too are probably feeler types. They will attempt to be friendly even at the cost of their awkwardness. I know because I am a feeler. As a past people pleaser I had to learn to stop neglecting my feelings and just tell the person no.

[GennySanders]

Well he should have at least cursed me out & let me know then I'd really know if he's interested or not. But I mean why pretend like i was looking at you dats what he did

[btbc92]

Well that's on him.
Not everybody wants to communicate like adulys. n

[GennySanders]

Next time I see him I'm gonna look at him like damn trash for no talking to me

[Anonymous]

It never happens to me (or they are too subtle about it and I don't notice). But I do remember once, and she wasn't hiding it in any way lol. I'm flattered, even if I'm not into them, I still like that someone is interested or likes what they see lol. We guys like to feel physically desired also, and unlike you women, we rarely get that kind of attention.

[markscott]

No, guys don't get offended if a girl checks the out.

[oldermale]

I wouldn't get offended, I'd take it as a compliment.

[jgokgotit]

Nope. I don't at least. If a woman wants to check me out, I'll probably show off XD

[KJ6ZGK]

Assuming the person checking me out is roughly my age, I wouldn't be offended at all. I'd probably say hi to them and exchange numbers or something

[GennySanders]

So if you see her looking at you & ur face is neutral she's not ur type? .

I mean if your with someone else at the moment

[JaxsonTrans505]

See, i dont get offended. If anything im just shocked bc no one ever checks me out😂

[Curmudgeon]

Honestly, I would be flattered.

[GennySanders]

Can you explain to me why

[Curmudgeon]

Because I am quite old by now

[Anonymous]

Do girls get offended when we check them out in public?

[cicchis0]

No, that's flattering.

[Anonymous]

NO we aren't children who believe the opposite sex taking interest in us is rape.

[Avicenna]

Most definitely not, but his girlfriend might.

[GennySanders]

So if a guy doesn't smile at least dat means he is offended right? Lol

[Avicenna]

Lol, no he just didn't notice, didn't expect it or doesn't care. No guy will be offended.

[Lynx122]

A lot of guys won't even notice.

[Shark_61695]

I'd be oblivious, lost in my own world.

[BeMuse]

Nope. Normal day...

[GennySanders]

Wats dat supposed to mean

[BeMuse]

It means that on a normal day I am use to women checking me out. It doesn’t affect me.

[Apope16]

No it turns me on.

[GennySanders]

How does it turn you on?

Let me ask you something, if you catch a girl looking you & you look at her regular & break eye contact she's not ur type?

[Apope16]

I still get turned on because I like the idea of a girl wanting to fuck me and feeling pleasure

[rockrewls]

Nope, and I mostly don't even notice tbh.

[ssj10hey]

Not at all

[Trojan35]

Not really.

[COMMODOREII]

I never do.

[jakeofalltrades]

not really

[Thatsamazing]

Lol is this a joke?

[GennySanders]

Does it sound like one

[Thatsamazing]

Yes.

[GennySanders]

Then why are u here

[Thatsamazing]

Because you made a post and people are allowed to comment on posts. Are you new to GaG or something?