She knows I have a girlfriend but I feel like she likes me a lot.

[Anonymous]

I am not sure what should I do. I have a very steady girlfriend. She loves and cares about me although sometimes she can be irritating. I met this girl about half year ago and we started going to lunches and sometimes hanging out. I like her and we seem to have a lot in common. She knows I have a girlfriend but I feel like she likes me a lot. I just want to see her and talk to her every day. I consider her a very good friend, and I don't want anyone gets hurt. Should I stop feeling this way and stop going out with her? by the way, my girlfriend knows I have this friend and we have a long distance relationship.

[bubblygirl0811]

Your poor girlfriend. She trusts you and hopes you'll be faithful but you're wanting to stray...

First of all, how would YOU feel if your girlfriend did this? If a guy friend she has (since you're long distance) asked her out to lunch and she enjoys it and wanna hang out with him. Of course, this could lead to other things and then, it's Dear John letter. Would you like to be the recipient of that letter?

2nd, some girls like guys with girlfriend because they seem steadier, more dependable. This disproves it right? On the off chance that you decide to go for her, she might just be playing with you... Think of your Girlfriend first!

3rd, how long have you been with your gf? Maybe you have the "itch?" Well, visit your girlfriend instead...

4th, just because someone offers you a free meal, you don't have to accept... It might be poison (especially to your relationship with your gf)

By all means, enjoy HANGING out with other girls. But don't stray til you're SINGLE again...

Just imagining what happens next could save you a lot of problems...

[b_luvedbaby]

This makes me sad. I'm in a scary similar situation with the only differences being that 1. I am the girlfriend and 2. we live together. My boyfriend has a friend that I know about and he's went to lunch with her plenty of times. He swears that she's just a friend though. I can't really give you advice because all I can think about is how I'd feel if this was how my boyfriend really felt. I'd be upset that he didn't have the self-control to stop seeing this girl knowing how he really felt. I'd be broken hearted. I guess you just have to decide if your "very steady girlfriend" is worth throwing away.

[Anonymous]

Break up with your girlfriend now before you cheat on her. It's clear you like this other girl, especially the fact that she is close and you can see her all of the time. Your relationship with this other girl is only going to escalate over time.