Does my Girlfriend actually like me?

[Jason756]

My girlfriend of 6 months now has very bad communication she would take 2-8 hours to reply to most of my texts. but when i’m with her she always on her phone. I’m so inlove with her and would always tell her I love her but she doesn’t say it back. we in a long distance relationship and she barely wants to come down here to see me. When I bring up the topic of her taking long to reply she says she doesn’t like texting. We also only call about 2 times in one month. I’m really lost right now I’m literally obsessed with her and don’t want to be without her. why could she be acting like this and still keep me around

[Jersey2]

Just ask her what’s going on and why she can be on the phone all the time but not text you back in a reasonable amount of time. Ask her is she is interested in you and sees it going somewhere. Just be upfront. She may be asexual, a bit autistic or just low need for communication.

If it were me though, I might look for other GFs while F’ing her when she is available or I might just move on but I would like clarity before I do that so I would ask her what’s going in with the underlying message of I’m out if I don’t get an encouraging answer.

[Mr_twoface]

Sad to say, she isn't insterested in you and probably only have you around for the perks you probably give her/provide her with. Move on man! Tell her straight up the reason for your breakup (be strong to stand against fake tears/excuses etc), block her and move on with your life. You can do better!

[myloveforuisinfinte]

She isn't interested in u. So break up , block her and move on. U don't need someone who don't value your time, effort love.
u deserve better 💕. Don't lose your self-respect. She isn't worthy tbh.

[Dinklex3]

Doesn’t sound like she likes or really cares about you.

[BrotherBane]

I've had a friend who is like that too. Literally everything you described, including flaking on online meetups! (Yeah, says ok to meeting online but flakes)

Looking at the comments here really solidifies my belief that they are just not interested.

[Sameone]

Yup she doesn't like you or in love with you
It's okay broukup whit her and try to find other women
Because your girlfriend she is busy with her second or first boyfriend
Maybe you are number 1 or 2 I don't know

[Unit1]

1) Long distance relationship

2) She loves her phone, not you.

3) She doesn't show love to you and neglects you

Is there any reason you are in it still?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I would have The Talk and break up. That sounds like she isn't taking it serious at all or doesn't even care.

[EmmaMary]

I suggest the next time you actually meet her face to face, ask her... Simples.

[Ms_Facesitter]

This.

[Drumlin2001]

Dosen't sound good. Either her lack of interest or your obsession. It dosen't sound like there's much of a future

[Flatmanlewis]

No. She’s not emotionally invested. Two calls a month? Heck man. Her actions speak for themselves.

[JacobJordan]

Don't message her for a day. See what happens. That'll answer the question for you

[KrakenAttackin]

Most women don't like men that much, they see us as more of an accessory and means to an end. Just look at how many relationships are 99% about the woman and what she wants.

[Alex-Snow]

Calling 2 x a month is not enough or going to cut it. It sounds like she is not too interested. Are the two of u sexually involved?

[Yannae]

I'm not convinced that she likes you. One of those reasons why I don't do long distance.

[gorydetails]

Lol, she’s fucking about 5 other guys right now.

[noohair]

She is not invested the way you are. And why can't you visit her?

[bellarolewicz]

it sounds like she's losing interest. i would communicate about it with her before ending things

[Anonymous]

Why u love her? Maybe she got offended by something therefore avoiding u

[leahzrc]

She is totally using you

[WindyandWarms]

Anything is possible.

[laly520]

she doesn't seem like she does
sorry