Are bubbly girls depressed and shy or truely bubbly?

[Lovelesspassion]

This is for all you girls with bubbly personalitys around friends..

Ive heard some girls who act bubbly are actually hidding thier true selfs with a bubbly one... is this true?

I heard this one girl who was happy and really bubbly around everone but is really depressed and stressed and accually cuts her self.. Is this really possable? Are some of you bubbly girls really depressed but hid it away? And if so how would a guy tell the difference between a real bubbly girl and a depressed bubbly girl?

[rachiee]

You can't tell the difference. That's the point. When a girl who is depressed and acts that way its because she's hiding how she really is and feels by covering it up by being happy. Not all "bubbly" girls are like that. Its basically the same thing as when a girl who is super pretty secretly has an eating disorder because she thinks she's fat or makes herself feel like crap because of her low self esteem. You won't be able to tell unless you really look for it and are good at reading people and being able to point out hidden emotions/low self esteem which most of the time is impossible for most people to do.

[lerato]

yup! I'm bubbly..cuz, I'm happy.

But, sometimes even if I feel like crying but the surroundings' in a different mood..i'd act bubbly on d upper front to hide my emotions for the time being..

Its hard to find out the difference..!

Though, I can track my best friend's mood..cuz, she gets over-bubbly when she feels low..i'm still on the run! ;) :)

[SpunkNiel]

umm yeah that could be true not at all times though... I remember when I was depressed usually when I was alone, I didn't let that show to my friends and other people though or so I think...but I am goofy when I am in a good mood especially with the people I am comfortable with

not all bubbly people are depressed or hiding it..but couldn't it be the other way around- quiet people hiding their bubbly side, don't you think?

[Ighosh]

It can actually be both. I have some bubbly friends who have depression, and I’ve also seen people, especially other women and girls, hide their depression behind a bubbly personality. On the other hand, some of my friends, as well as some other females, are truly happy and bubbly.

[CatherineTheSoSo]

Even bubbly girls have bad days. No one is always happy and upbeat, that's inhuman. Some people's depression runs a little deeper or are harder to spot than others and the only way you can tell is if you knew them or if you know how to spot it.

[kkandbb]

hmm well for me I'm bubbly because I'm happy. All it takes is my boyfriend, friends or cat and I'm a happy girl. Although sometimes I do get severely depressed.. maybe I'm mildly bipolar.

[Anonymous]

you'd just have to get to know her better to see if she's like that all the time or if it's just for show. Being around someone who is bubbly all the time would get on my nerves though I have to say lol

[Anonymous]

Uhm, actually it is true. I act bubbly at school so I can see my friends happy, that's what most people in situations like me do. :). I used to cut my self but I stopped. I'm depressed sometimes but I don't show it. It's cause girls like me don't like to bring other people down with them. That's why they act that way.

[Anonymous]

Just bubbly...

[Anonymous]

No. they're happy.

[Shadoww]

happy