Why does she keep watching all my Instagram Stories and is usually the first to check it out?

[rufaro88]

We broke up on holiday together. It started out as a fling, and then we just got closer and closer. We went away on holiday together, and then she woke up one day and just said that's she's not ready to date again and left. Not a word since. Nothing. I was left on a fantasy island on my own for 4 days. This was 3 months ago. I haven't tried to contact her, I haven't spoken to her since she decided to walk out my life.

But something strange, she's the 1st person to always like my instagram posts, and she's always there to watch my stories. If she didn't care anymore, why does she still do this?

[alex202020]

maybe I'm just a conspiracy theorist but maybe she has another boyfriend that she's not sure they're going to be together forever and she has her own personal debate between both of you. A friend of mine had a girlfriend whose ex-boyfriend came back from overseas two years after they're broken up but they still had kept in contact on Facebook or whatever and then had a very good job making fake money and his girlfriend basically said yeah he wants me back and I want to go back with him because he makes good money and my friends job was mediocre but nothing to laugh at. I'm just saying from my experience she likes you she's not going to stay single, she is going to be with you.. And I don't think it's because of guilt like to see if you're all right or whatever like something I would do just to lessen my Gilt, but women don't delay have much of that because they have dug deep to find their own personal justifications and then they hold on to it. just get a few dogs and then realize what true love is. Just kidding but not.

[rufaro88]

Man... You are an absolute champion... You are a trooper. I mean like damn.. You put mad effort into that response and IT MAKES SENSE!

PS. I've gone dog shopping 😂😂😂

[alex202020]

I spent years trying to understand the psyche of women and it was very disappointing along the way no more research to do but I'm still convinced there are that small percentage that are genuine and I mean small light maybe 10% not more than 15% because my mom is the trump card in my misogynistic theories because she's genuine.
I am so lucky I have three wonderful children with relatively cool mothers and I run a dog sanctuary in Thailand. In no way am I lacking of the love feeling or the being appreciated feeling

[rufaro88]

You're a champion man, and with 3 kids, you've already been super blessed... Your story gives us hope. And the irony of it all, is that this story I'm telling you about, happened in Thailand! 😂

[departedthe]

She's probably not over you.