Why would a girl ignore me in person but watches all my Instagram stories?

[Anonymous]

So this girl I used to talk to recently stopped texting back, and has been ignoring in person for no reason, but has never missed an Instagram story of mine for weeks now.

And before you say it might be random, she follows like 4,000 people, so I know it’s not just by chance, cause that’s a lot of stories she must watch a day to randomly see mine. So what do you think this means?

[Part2603]

What difference does it make? So maybe pathetic dudes on here are like, "Does she like me? I NEED to KNOW if she likes me because I'm just a baby I couldn't possibly make a move unless I was perfectly sure it would be successful."

Grow up. Stop being such a little bitch.

Newsflash, there are a million different levels of ambivalence, and attraction, and passion, you name it.

There's NO SUCH THING as a sure thing when it comes to this game. At any moment you might do something to totally fuck up a good thing, or she might "feel differently" for no reason at all, or a Chad might just swoop in.

Anything could happen. Nothing could happen. You just never know.

Truly the only way to win at this game is to be confident to pursue what you want, to be confident in the moves that you chose to make.

Does she like you? Probably not. Might there be an advantage in deliberately interpreting this tiny sign as such so that way you investigate further? Probably.

You can just go talk to her, flirt her up a little bit, see how she responds.

She's ignoring you in person, because you're allowing her to do that. You can just go and say "hey".

[Guy13]

She can’t make-up her mind, is messing with your mind, and/or trying to make you jealous. Did you say something or do something forcing physical distance ⁉️

[Asker]

No I don’t think so, I texted her asking her what’s wrong and no answer, just left on read.

[Guy13]

Give her time and no attention. Some girls are attention whores. Don’t let her know that you know she is watching. That’s the electronic version of face-face flirting or chasing.

[jaadu_14]

She's creating space by the way you both... she's not interested in uh... simple but she's also curious to know what's happening on your life... i think you should ignore her back on social media and irl too 🥴just give 0 F to her

[WhitneySnow]

No clue. Why don’t you text her and ask her? Usually better to be direct.

[Asker]

I did text her but no response, I asked if something got her upset, left on read. Drives me nuts lol

[WhitneySnow]

That’s weird. I guess just wait for her to make the next move.

Gtg. Bye!

[Avicenna]

Maybe she expects you to talk to her. Where do you see her in person?

[MystiKaL]

If she has stopped replying to your texts, but watches your stories, then it sounds like she's not 10% sure about you and may not be totally interested. I would advise to back off, not chase her and move on. If she initiates contact, tread with caution as she may simply be attention seeking.

[SolitarySolace]

She probably watches all of the stories of those she knows in person. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Probably just tapping through them though and not paying any attention to what’s actually in the stories unless it’s someone she’s close with. That’s what I do

[Anonymous]

Women also do this to me or have done, all my life, women really are ugly evil stupid cd blooded creatures. I would let her see you with a girl. Just ask a girl for a photo, if you tell them you want to make this cunt jealous what she's doing pretty girls will line up. Why, they all play evil hate games.. females are called bitches for a reason.. sad.. but true..

[MountAverage]

She's not watching your Insta stories, she's just going through the feed of all her followed profiles. Even if she's just skipping yours she will still be shown in your story's list of people who've watched it.

[spartan55]

Dude you sound like a girl talking about your gay Instagram stories... Come on now

[FilmGuy93]

She probably finds you attractive but doesn’t know what to say in person. Some of the boldest women online are shy in real life.

[boggboss]

Did somthing happend why u stopped talking

[Asker]

No, I have no clue, cause we weren’t dating or anything. We would hangout, and me and her kissed once but nothing happened since. It was all cool for a month or 2, then boom, ignored me, and doesn’t even look at me. Nuts

[boggboss]

Maybe she got a partner?

[Iron_Man]

Ask her what’s wrong

[JohnK123]

That happens a lot haha

[Mollynotgemma]

She fancies you

[jamartheg]

Cus you have interesting stories

[Summeroflove]

No idea

[Babygirl_S]

Due to shyness