Girls, what would you do if one of your guy friends snapped your bra? ?

[Anonymous]

I did it to one of my friends, she is cool, and is always messing with me, but when I did it, she gave me a solid ball tap, laughed and say, "now we're even"

is that a fair retaliation?

[laraWM]

I'd have slap him not so hard, but aiming for that spot seems a bit excessive to me since I know it hurts a great deal

[Asker]

don't you think it was kinda unfair she went for the jewels? don't women know how sensitive they are?

[laraWM]

It is always unfair to hit someone and inflict pain. As I said I wouldn't have hit you there since I know it causes great pain to guys.
But we obviously can't relate, maybe your friend thinks you're stronger than that. You should just explain to her it is very sensitive and it truly hurts

[Asker]

do girls get that it only takes a light tap in the balls to drop us?

[laraWM]

Sorry for you, I didn't understand it drops you. So I guess she was able to understand she caused great pain to you.
Then I don't know, maybe she tought you were acting. You must explain that to her and see how she reacts. I think she'll apologise once she'll understand, otherwise you should get new friends that are not going to hurt you that way.

[Asker]

Do women think guys are less tough if they drop to the ground after a hit in the balls?

[laraWM]

I see, I think it's more a male issue to not show your pain.
The pain really depends from the person, some people can handle more pain. But from what I know, it is not uncommon for guys to drop to the ground for that.
I mean I've seen guys on the ground unable to even move for a long time after being hit there. I've always assumed it must hurt a lot

[Asker]

Yeah I guess as a guy, we want women to think our privates are tough and manly and not so vulnerable

[laraWM]

As a girl, if I can tell you something, never pretend it doesn't hurt. I think it could be the reason why your friend laughed. Being strong is not having no pain, being strong is accepting your weaknesses and handling the pain

[Nicolette98]

Seems like you two are always messing around so seems fine to me. Would be a bit odd if you didn’t know each other.

[Asker]

don't you think it was kinda unfair she went for the jewels? don't women know how sensitive they are?

[Nicolette98]

Maybe, it depends on the relationship between the people involved and some other factors as well. PM if you like I can probably explain my thoughts better through there.

[Asker]

just messaged you

[Anonymous]

I mean, I pointed out my friend’s dick through his sweatpants so he vag tapped me (if you don’t know, it hurts us just as much - sent me straight to the ground in the fetal position). It was honestly pretty funny and I deserved it, but that’s how playful friendships work. You can get into the sexual stuff without it being awkward or actually sexual. You could vag tap your friend back next time she does it, but honestly, who really lost here? You got a girl to touch your nuts. Maybe that’s her fucked up way of flirting.

[Asker]

But she gave me a hard time that I dropped from the tap and told me to man up

[Opinion Owner]

He vag tapped me so hard that I dropped. There was no mention of “man up,” though. Did she say it in a mean way?

[Asker]

I think she was giving me shit because I’m a lot bigger and more muscular yet her ball rap dropped me

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve been dropped from being vag tapped by much smaller, younger, less muscular girls. When I was 17, my 6 year old cousin kicked me in the vagina because he thought it didn’t hurt girls. The pain made me throw up and shit my pants after collapsing. An eight year old disabled me to the extent of emptying my bowels into my pants. Let that sink in. It doesn’t matter how tough you are and how weak the other person is, a ball tap or vag tap will take down ANYONE. Don’t let her give you shit for that.

[Asker]

Damn that sucks! So you wouldn’t expect man to be able to take a tap in the balls and keep standing

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn’t expect anyone to stay standing after a tap in the genitals, so yes, that includes men and your balls. The vagina, the breasts, the balls, they’re all so comically sensitive that the only thing you can do is laugh at the ridiculousness of human design. When it happens to oneself, I mean. I’d never laugh at someone else getting hit in the crotch, that’s just cruel and mean.

[Asker]

I gusss I feel it’s more embarrassing for guys to drop from a tap because we’re generally bigger and stronger than a woman

[Opinion Owner]

On the contrary, it’s more embarrassing for women to drop from a tap because we also have boobs, which are a second weak spot. By tapping us there, it’s like showing everyone that we have your weak spot, plus ours. Plus there’s also the concern of a tap upsetting my stomach and causing stuff to come out the wrong end. As far as I know, women have a nerve complex that causes gas after groin injuries while men don’t.

[Asker]

But because I’m muscular she expected a little tap to have little affect on ne

[Opinion Owner]

Balls, vaginas, throats, breasts, noses, and eyes are all sensitive on everyone, regardless of their musculature. I’m muscular too, for a girl, and I’ve been taken down by crotch taps. No shame in that.

[Asker]

Yeah but I guess since it’s our most manly part, we wish it would be tough and manly

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I sometimes wish that my “most womanly part” was tough, but it’s not. That’s life. The human body has weak spots all over. Women have more weak spots than men because of breasts, and we’re also generally weaker than men. Men and women are equal in groin weakness, though. It almost makes it easier to relate to each other, right? I’ll go down from a hit to my lady bits, and you’ll do the same when you’re hit in your balls. I’m a pretty serious athlete, but an eight year old managed to take me down and completely humiliate me. It’s funny, and it makes me stay humble. At any point, my strength that I have spent so long cultivating can be taken away from me when I’m hit in my weak spot. This is an experience that every woman and every man can relate to. I think it simplifies inter gender relations, you know what I mean? It makes it so that we have something in common.

[Asker]

But women seem to laugh more at a hit to the balls

[Opinion Owner]

Because it’s embarrassing to see a woman get hit in the vagina. Every time I watch a video of a little kid hitting a woman to no effect until he hits her right in the vagina and she falls, it stings my ego a little bit. It reveals that EVERY woman has a weak spot down there. More importantly, it reveals that any man, woman, or child can take down any woman at any time just by hitting her in the self destruct button. When it happens to men, it feels less like a personal attack so some people find that funny. I’ve learned to accept my weakness so it’s not as awkward for me. Most women who will only laugh at nutshots and not at vagina shots are just insecure.

[Asker]

but I hate how girls think that’s my weak spot, I wish they thought I was tough and manly

[Opinion Owner]

You are. You aren’t defined by how easy it is to take you down with an eye gouge or a throat punch, either. It’s not that you’re weak and unmanly because you have a weak spot, it’s that you’re strong and manly and happen to have the same weak spots that the rest of us have. I hated how weak I looked when my friend brought me to the ground with a simple tap to the groin, but I realized that he doesn’t see me as weak. I even asked him afterwards, and he told me that it was just what any girl, or any guy, for that matter, would have done. That’s like suggesting that you’re weak and unmanly for needing to drink water. You can’t be held to a standard higher than what’s universal.

[Asker]

Do girls expect guys to wear cups to prevent that injury?

[Opinion Owner]

I usually wear a female “cup” (look up what a jillstrap is) for athletics and martial arts because I don’t like the idea of being hindered by this crippling be-all/end-all weak spot when I’m trying to feel strong and athletic, but otherwise I accept the vulnerability as it is and don’t cover it. I’d expect a man to do the same thing - wear a cup for sports, not elsewhere though.

[Asker]

I used to wrestle and we wore these singlets that showed our bulge, we didn’t wear cups because we wanted the ladies to see it

[Opinion Owner]

That seems kinda perverted. No shame in that, though, people do all kinds of weird shit in high school sports

[Asker]

Don’t girls like to check out the bulge

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, yes. Absolutely. It’s still a little weird in my opinion, though, to intentionally display yourself like that.

[Asker]

Well the wrestling singlet does that for us, it’s super tight all over, can’t do anything about that

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it’s hot if you have to and if you’re a little embarrassed by it, but don’t show it off deliberately

[Asker]

Do girls pay special attention to that area when watching wrestlers

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah, of course

[Asker]

Good, we always loved to show off our masculine bulge! The material didn’t leave anything to the imagination

[Opinion Owner]

I think you got the wrong idea from what I said. If a guy is bashful when girls see his bulge and tries (and fails) to cover it, it’s cute. If a guy is deliberately showing off his bulge it’s kind of hot but more obnoxious than anything else

[Asker]

In most uniforms you can’t really see the bulge right though? I figured that’s why girls would like the singlet

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah

[21browngirl]

Unfriend him. thats non consensual

[Anonymous]

Lol I already like her. That's fair.

[Asker]

don't you think it was kinda unfair she went for the jewels? don't women know how sensitive they are?

[Aphrodite_1998]

Kick him in the nuts ask him how does that feel.

[Asker]

don't you think it was kinda unfair she went for the jewels? don't women know how sensitive they are?