Girls, would you be mad if a guy accidentally elbowed you in the boob?

[Anonymous]

We have a coed water polo club team in college and i accidentally elbowed my teammate in the boob kinda hard during a game.

She got pretty bad saying I was being too aggressive even though I apologized right after it happened

[_Maya_]

Not mad. That does hurt though. If it was accidental and especially during a sport then I am not going to get all up in someone's face. It was an accident after all. Plus, when you play sports you risk injury no matter what body part you are talking about. That is just part of playing sports. If you aren't willing to take that risk then don't play in the first place.

[Asker]

Does it really hurt that bad? It was hard but not like super hard since we were in water

[_Maya_]

Yeah dude. It does hurt.

[Asker]

I guess I just thought she overreacted a bit

[_Maya_]

She probably did. Stuff happens in sports.

[provokeesmokee]

Nah, if you're in a coed contact sport, it's gonna happen.

I've been punched and kicked in the boobs several times in martial arts. Never hard enough for severe pain or injury (to the boobs; I've had fucked up knees, feet, and shoulders tho).

Especially something as frantic and challenging to coordinate as water polo.

She should get hard shell sports bras for protection if she's so sensitive. They're quite a good product, in my opinion. And easy to move in.

[Asker]

How bad is getting knocked in the boobs?

[EmmaMary]

Breasts can indeed be tender, especially around one's menstruation time, and similar in a way to a man's testicles, which I've been reliably informed can hurt like hell if kicked or punch there.

Now if this was accidental, and I do mean purely accidental, then obviously it needs to be accepted in that way and hopefully forgotten about.

[Asker]

It can be as bad as getting hit in the balls? I felt bad and apologized but she was still mad at me

[EmmaMary]

I think you need to put it down to the fact that she was probably completely taken by surprise, and unfortunately reacted in the manner she did.

Hopefully she eventually accepted your apology and got on with the game accordingly.

[Asker]

She said if it happened again she would smack me in the balls

[EmmaMary]

Well there's a warning you can't ignore! lol

[Asker]

Haha true, and the only thing I’m wearing is a thin speedo so not much protection for the jewels!

[Sirenboobzilla]

If it's purely an accident, I'd get mad because it would hurt but not enough to take it out on someone. Especially if it's during an activity like a sport. I played volleyball in high-school and I've caught a few elbows and fists to the tit, but given the situation it wouldn't be fair to get mad at them for it. That said, if it happens a lot in the same way by the same person, that's when I'd be fuming

[Asker]

It was def an accident but she didn’t even accept my apology - because of how water polo is played you often get bumped in the chest so it’s fairly common - I guess i got her too hard

[Sirenboobzilla]

Never played water polo, but yeah, that's something you willingly risk when playing contact sports. Personally, with the information at hand, I think she's in the wrong

[Asker]

She also got mad because I didn’t stop the play and ended up scoring a goal - I didn’t realize at first she was actually hurt

[laraWM]

I can understand she was mad but you said you apologized so I don't think you can do more. Maybe buy her some chocolate 😂

[Sour-rose]

Yes. I worked hard for these things and I feel like the mofo disrespected dem

[Asker]

Even it was an accident?

[Sour-rose]

*angry dinosaur noises*

[rachel776]

i can tell when it's accidental and when it's not and it's usually not

[lujeucau]

You can get mad, especially if it hurts a lot. Maybe you were playing too rough with the girls

[Anonymous]

Yes I would be pissed off. How would you like to get kicked in the balls?

[Kelly6]

Accidently,,, so no I won’t be mad