Is my boyfriend being ridiculous for being mad about an accident that happened on his boat?

[Anonymous]

Let me tell you about my boyfriend first, he is always asking me to wear low-cut shirts to show off my cleavage and always asking me to wear sexy bikinis for him, he's got to be the biggest big boob fanatic I know Even when we go out with his friends he's always asking me to wear lots of cleavage. Well we took some friends out on the boat this past weekend and he asked me to wear a sexy strapless bikini that showed a lot of cleavage. We were all drinking having a good time and swimming in the water. Well when we were getting ready to leave some of the guys were standing around on the back of the boat, well I jumped up in the water to get on the swim platform and I grabbed one of the guys hands to help me on the boat. when I jumped up in the water and reached my hands in the air To grab his hand my bikini came unbuckled in the back and fell down onto the swim platform, For just a moment I was not able to cover my boobs up because the guy was pulling me up onto the swim platform and both of my boobs were out for the whole boat to see. After the guy pulled me up I quickly covered up my boobs grabbed my top and turned around and put it back on. I was completely embarrassed that I had just flashed everyone on the boat and what it made it even more embarrassing was all the guys started clapping and cheering And even the girls were laughing at me. My boyfriend just kind of laughed and then didn't really say much to me. Later that day my boyfriend brought the subject up and it turned into a big argument about how he was pissed that everyone saw my boobs and he said that When the guy pulled me up onto the boat my boobs pushed up against him because I bumped into him ( I did not even notice this part because I was so embarrassed) I mean how was I supposed to stop myself from bumping into him? he was pulling on me. I was thinking to myself this guy has to be crazy he's always asking me to show them off and when I accidentally showed too much he turns the opposite gets pissed about it. I tried explaining to him that it was an accident and I was embarrassed about it and that he did not even ask me if I was okay or try to comfort me at all. I don't get it, it's not something that I did on purpose nor could I really help it I mean after all he's the one that asked me to where that bikini. Is my boyfriend just being stupid? or was this really my fault should I have done something different?

[Talynted]

How I feel on this all: He's jealous that everyone got a look at your rack. He liked to show off you goodies, as long as he was the only one who knew what you looked like naked. He doesn't know how to express his anger at his buddies checking your naked breasts out and that some guy got to feel them on him, accident or not. Try to explain the whole thing to him again. Let him know that you were really embarrassed and uncomfortable in that situation. That you can't change it but you don't want to dwell on that moment either.

[USGrant]

We try to project and play, yet we're posessive and jealous. You're in the right here, yet his reaction wouldn't be uncommon. You gotta try to explain to him your side and the physics of the situation of being pulled up. He should also understand that he reaps what he sows, but don't emphasize that part of it too much since that'll probably tick him off.

[Bluejeanshorts]

I think he should apologize to you for his behavior clearly a accident. and that guy who help you up should been the first to hand you your top. Those girl who where laughing shoul have been laughing with you and telling you it happens sometimes

[Racez]

It's not your fault. It's him to be blamed for making wear those too revealing outfits.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a bastard, he's just showing you off to his friends like a toy, basically he wants to tease them, but when they see 100% of your goods he gets pissed off. That's not love.