Why would a guy saves a girl's number when she didn't even provide him the number?

[Anonymous]

[fus_ro_DAAAAAAAAMN]

Depending on why and how he got it, it could be a red flag. Personally, I'd see it as a lack of respect for my boundaries.

[MannMitAntworten]

He cannot save that which was not provided.

[Asker]

Like he somehow found it himself...

[MannMitAntworten]

Well that is just damn creepy of him...

[Asker]

Why would he do that?

[MannMitAntworten]

You are asking the wrong guy. I would NEVER do this. Creepy isn’t my thing.

[Asker]

I mean like we know each other but we haven't exchanged contacts yet

[MannMitAntworten]

I have never gotten a woman’s number I did not ask her directly for. I have been offered certain women’s number through a third party but always refuse them because if I am going to get ‘her’ number, I am getting it from her. It would be damn bizarre to call/text someone and they ask how you got their number which has to creep them out. I have had this done to me... I was not a fan of my number being gotten from than through me. I imagine a woman would feel the same since it just seems otherwise creepy to me... so why he would do this I really cannot imagine doing to begin to even give you a plausible explanation as to why he would do that... even if he does know you... which then begs the greater question of why not just ask you for it?

[Asker]

Maybe because we aren't that close?

[Asker]

And also don't usually see each other around?

[MannMitAntworten]

I really do not know. This is creepy behavior. Personally I would avoid someone with these sorts of tendencies.

[CikaZivan]

Why not

[Asker]

Because she isn't the one who provide the number. Like he found it himself

[CikaZivan]

So what

[Asker]

Because where else could be have found it from? We didn't even exchange contacts

[CikaZivan]

Why does it matter?
I took my current girlfriend's number from my ex roommate...