Has she lost interest or is she back with her ex?

[Ty2020]

Hi guys, I met a girl on hinge last week. She's very shy. We talked for about everyday due to the covid19. We have talked over the phone about 3 times for about 3 hrs. At the beginning of this year, she broke up with her long term boyfriend (Dated for 3 years). They live like 5 houses down from each other.

Apart from that. She is very flirty with me over text and phone. She doesn't bring up her ex a lot only when we talk about our past relationships.

Fast forward today, i was busy yesterday but today she doesn't seem like her normal self over text. a bit distant and not saying much. She also said she saw her ex yesterday smokin cigarettes and its something they always argued about.

what should i do?

[msss98]

Sounds like she's using u to pass time, if u really wan't to date u should meet her irl. 3 years is a long time so i wouldn't be surprised if she was just talking to you to get her mind of other stuff and kill time

[elizamichale1]

Dont get worried so quickly lol
U need to give her time n she can't always be in the same mood

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for MHO honey

[EyesOfGod]

Girls get attached to their ex's i would be surprised if she's gone back to him multiple times and also had sex with him.

[Ty2020]

Should i just tell her to give herself a couple of days to think or what?

[Avicenna]

What are the chances of actually meeting her in person soon?

[Ty2020]

like 90%

[Avicenna]

Then try to set something up. That will be a game changer- you will be "real", and a fresh face. That will help you elbow any thoughts of him aside.

[Ty2020]

She has blood clots in her lungs due to takin the pill. Yes the pill. So she's still healing before she can do anything.

[Iron_Man]

You’re probably beating a dead horse

[Cougar2Yall]

Maybe both