Two weeks is nothing compared to how much time you’ve invested in her and the feelings that you’ve gained. It’s going to take some real time, especially if you had such strong feelings and wanted to have a future together. If she’s with someone else, then all you can do is accept it. In fact, I believe the lack of acceptance is where you are personally screwing yourself and making it harder. Your resolve is to stay stuck on that woman, and say “you can’t help it”, which is so counterproductive. Rather than help yourself by keeping them out of sight/mind, you unblock, keep track of them, and essentially torture yourself, making an already hard process even higher. Letting go is hard, I know, but that is what needs to happen in order to see some real progress. Stop holding onto that hope of her being on the rebound, clinging onto your past and basically waiting for that relationship to fail. It’s all toxic and unhelpful. Focus on bettering your mental health, however you need to do it.
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