Is she losing interest or has she found someone else?

[Anonymous]

So I have been seeing my girlfriend for 9 months. We are both in our late 20s and live in different cities but see each other a few times a week and all is great when we are together. Lately though she has gone completely silent, and I always have to call or text her first. This was not the case before as she would blow up my phone but now she doesn't even send a good morning message. When we do talk on the phone she seems fine but why this silence all of a sudden?

[Anonymous]

Nothing makes a woman happy. Think about it. For the short honey moon period they will be ok, but after that it's downhill. Nothing, and I mean nothing makes them happy. This is why she's silent and I guarantee it has nothing to do with stress, career or any of that. That's also why she used to blow up your phone, the novelty factor. Remember this:

There are only 2 things that make a woman unhappy.

1) Getting what she wants.
2) Not getting what she wants.

If you stop initiating, she may try more, but ultimately it will be a waste of time.

[random_girl95]

Maybe she has a stressful career and something came up so she has to be focused more than she did in the past. It doesn't mean that she don't want to talk to you, probably her mind is somewhere else that the time.