Guys, Independent woman or a feminine woman?

Anonymous
I'm feeling very insecure right now. I was raised to be independent. Not to depend on no man. I just read a comment on instagram how a man could cheat on this independent woman for a girl who has nothing because she is feminine...

Honestly, I dont know how to be feminine... I don't know how to ask for something when all my life whatever I want I go get it MYSELF... I'm girly. Somewhat pretty on a good day but I feel like that's not enough and I'm feeling very insure... thoughts?
Guys, Independent woman or a feminine woman?
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