Guys, dependent or independent women?

[Anonymous]

Which type of women is more dateable and desirable?

Dependent

Independent

[randomusername321]

I don't mind her being dependent on me or looking up at me for anything tbh. However when it comes to finances, that's a deal-breaker. I don't want to date someone who doesn't earn, or isn't trying to. Its okay if their still finishing their education off, or trying to find a job but not if they deliberately don't want to earn and rely on me for that for the rest of their lives. It is okay if they later in life become physically unable to earn due to some reason and then rely on me for money, or if they end up losing their job or are in some financial crisis etc. They can count on me then, and I'll always be there for them. But I just can't stand women who are fully capable but choose not to earn because they're lazy or expect to live off from their man's wallet. That tells me that they're lazy, dumb, and incompetent.

[MrOracle]

We don't really want either extreme, but rather something in between. What we really want is a SUPPORTIVE and APPRECIATIVE woman - and most men will work hard to show such women appreciation in return and to make her life better.

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@MrOracle Charles Xavier?

[Unit1]

I LOVE independent career women 😍 To me they are the most beautiful women.

Dependent women can go to the loaded guys, who love squandering their own money on women.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Independent - not dependent; not depending or contingent upon something else for existence, operation, etc.
A true independent person lives 100% off the land. For example they hunt, trap, fish, grow, gather for food. They build their own shelter.
Being too much of what society considers what being independent is not good because it could make the other person feel not wanted or useful.
A dependent person would rely on me to do way too much stuff.
What most would want is a independent dependent person. One who does things on their own but also asks for help at time. Also someone who does not let the other person do things just to feel useful even though they do not want the help.
With my girlfriend and I we both do the cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. The reason is we both eat the food, dirty up the house, want clean clothes etc. We both work so we do not solely rely on the other person monetarily.

[ovixs90]

I like women in the middle don't like to dependent and to much independent. My reasons are this when you date to much dependable girl it means you always have to be like her daddy, take care of her, buy here everything she will never pay for nothing and in your family she probably won't move a muscle to make things done.

Also if you date very independent woman she probably won';t care much about you , she's probably feminists, has some hate for men or think she is better or supperior.

Best is when she is in the middle ground.

[AD240pCharlie]

Obviously, neither of them would be good if they go to the extreme. Too dependent and I'd get annoyed because I need some time to myself as well as being worried since I'd like her to be able to keep going if anything were to happen to me. Too independent and we wouldn't be in a relationship, we'd just be friends who meet and fuck every now and then.
At the risk of sounding like the boss of captain obvious while Captain Obvious is busy looking at the map to get the ship onto the right track, a middle ground is the way to go.

[AzzaBlue]

Damn it I accidentally picked dependent whereas I meant to pick independent.
My thoughts on this matter are simple. I want a grown arse adult woman, not a child who expects men to constantly chase them, pay for their shit and put out with their entitlement nonsense.

[shalt]

EXACTLY, this is NOT attractive and what most women are about

[Miristheiss]

Family and relationship oriented.
One who values family, relationships higher than career.

I never went for women who worked 60 hours a week... crazy schedules in which I rarely saw them... they traveled for their job all the time and I was just a tag along in her life... right after her career.

I went for girls who wanted romance and who wanted to get married and although they like their job... their family was their main priority in life.

[hahahmm]

Depends on the type of guy you want. If you want a guy who has value (isn't mediocre) then he has higher expectations. Basically it boils down to you being a good team player. You can be dependent and be a team player because he's getting things he wants too. And I don't mean sex.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I haven't really meet a truly independent women. I always try to find them but after enough time with them I always end up realizing they just want to be lead. Which is fine and there's nothing wrong with that. But if you try to treat a girl like that too independently they'll sort of hold it against you.

I'm sure there's independent woman out there, I just think it's very very rare and a lot of women think they are but they're not.

[ShadezMcgee]

Independent to the degree where he happiness and her identity as a person does not depend on me to bring her purpose or joy in her life. That is an unfair responsibility on both genders if the other is the dependent on them to that level.

My girlfriend loves me and spends time with me, but she still has her friends, her hobbies, her family to keep her busy and grounded and she doesn't solely rely on me. That is the way it should be.

[t-8900]

uuuh kind of neither fully tbh. I dont want her to be a gold digger but i prefer one of us be home for the kids so the idiotic government doesn't brainwash them. Our society is turning to crap with all this political garbage. I just want my kids to be kids and be left alone from the demonic hell spawn trying to corrupt them in the public education system.