If she says hi first?

[Anonymous]

this is probably a dumb question but I really don't believe in dumb questions, just dumb people. whenever I see the girl I'm into, she'll say hi first. would a girl who doesn't like you do that.?

sometimes I say hi first, but most of the time its her. :)

[-ALPHA-]

how can you think she likes you because she says hi first? All of my girl friends say hi to me first when they see me... it really isn't important who says it first lol.

[Asker]

as I said up above, she seems to tend to show interest in other ways but, I just figured if she didn't say hi first, then at least she doesn't think I'm a creep. regardless of if she likes me or not

[Shaun]

Well, you know for certain that she doesn't think you're a creep.

[Asker]

lol, well, if she thought that, then she wouldn't keep coming back to my work. regardless of if its to see me or not

[Shaun]

Well, what are you waiting for? You're into her, she's saying hi to you... all systems are go.

[Asker]

cause its not that easy, lol. while "just being nice" could be taken as a good thing. its also the death of us, when we like a girl, right? how can I tell if that's the case. if she's "just being nice"

[Shaun]

Look, you can't. She sends signals and you respond by upping the stakes ever so slightly. Going out for coffee is a non threatening 'date' which you could easily shrug off if she doesn't like you that way.

[Asker]

yeah well, sometimes rejection is the hardest thing to handle. and plus, she comes to my work everyday. if she did reject me, how awkward would that be

[Shaun]

I've given you the best advice that I know for your situation. Good luck.

[Bombshell13]

Sounds like reaching. I mean, she def likes you but it could just be as a friend.

[Asker]

she does other things too that seem to show she's interested I just wanted to mention this, at it seems like it'd be the most important, other than physical signs (if she's at least saying hi, she obviously doesn't think I'm a creep)

[Asker]

as it*

[Nicky1111]

It depends , if she is shy or doesn t talk to many guys for her she could be like telling you she likes you