Girls, Why is she deliberately delaying a reply to my message?

Question

Like I send her a message and she is online but responds hours later. But she always responds to me. Like in person she smiles at me, we talk, my mate saw her leaning in towards me when we were chatting once. She seems somewhat nervous around me suddenly. I added her on Facebook and she took 24hours to accept it. She offered to help me a few times with some tasks. What the hell is going on?

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1 y

She does reply in less than an hour sometimes too

Answer 1

ChelsiChu

Xper 5

ok so either she doesn't care at all and is trying to send you a message, OR, (I do this a lot BY ACCIDENT haha) she likes you so much she doesn't know what to say and wants to make her responses perfect

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ando90

1 y
I know she is very devoted to her study

Answer 2

ando90

I know she is very devoted to her study

Answer 3

sloppycat15

Xper 1

I think that you have nothing to worry about, since if your relationship is otherwise going well, texting is a small part of it and even I ignored my ex from time to time, becausd I for example didn’t have the energy to deal with the matter right away

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ando90

1 y
She is approaching exams and is very devoted to study
sloppycat15

1 y
Yes, when I have an exam, I usually ignore everyone, including my boyfriend. You just want to focus on the thing that you’re doing. If you are concerned, just have a sit down and tell her about what you feel. If she doesn’t act as understanding, she isn’t the one. Relationship should all be about honesty.
ando90

1 y
My last message i sent her 2 days ago. She finally got back to me and asked me a question. Like I'm confused I don't know whether to make her wait.

Answer 4

ando90

She is approaching exams and is very devoted to study

Answer 5

sloppycat15

Yes, when I have an exam, I usually ignore everyone, including my boyfriend. You just want to focus on the thing that you’re doing. If you are concerned, just have a sit down and tell her about what you feel. If she doesn’t act as understanding, she isn’t the one. Relationship should all be about honesty.

Answer 6

ando90

My last message i sent her 2 days ago. She finally got back to me and asked me a question. Like I'm confused I don't know whether to make her wait.

Answer 7

Gwenhwyfar

Master

Coincidence. She just gets busy. I’m the same way. She’s not playing games with you.

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ando90

1 y
Do you think she likes me?
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
Yes.
GiselleQueenboss

1 y
LOL naiive
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Gwenhwyfar

1 y
@GiselleQueenboss wym?
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
I think she likes him
GiselleQueenboss

1 y
I’m pretty sure she doesn’t lol
ando90

1 y
She has replied to me. She had been flat out with study. I know she is very devoted to her studies
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
@GiselleQueenboss why u so sure she doesn’t?
ando90

1 y
She keeps taking her time and then replies to me. The latest one she asked me a question. So I'm kinda confused
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
What did she ask?

If she takes her time a lot she might be a little interested but not super interested
ando90

1 y
It's only a been a couple of times. Most of the time she replies within 1hr to 1hr 30min
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
I still think she likes you

What did she ask?
ando90

1 y
Should I wait a bit first before replying to her. Like she takes her time. So I feel I should take my time too. I just made a comment about something I did on the weekend. My message didn't really need a reply and she asked me about that something on the weekend.
Gwenhwyfar

1 y
Not necessary. Answer when you feel like it. She’s not playing games.

Answer 8

ando90

Do you think she likes me?

Answer 9

Gwenhwyfar

Yes.

Answer 10

GiselleQueenboss

LOL naiive

Answer 11

Gwenhwyfar

@GiselleQueenboss wym?

Answer 12

Gwenhwyfar

I think she likes him

Answer 13

GiselleQueenboss

I’m pretty sure she doesn’t lol

Answer 14

ando90

She has replied to me. She had been flat out with study. I know she is very devoted to her studies

Answer 15

Gwenhwyfar

@GiselleQueenboss why u so sure she doesn’t?

Answer 16

ando90

She keeps taking her time and then replies to me. The latest one she asked me a question. So I'm kinda confused

Answer 17

Gwenhwyfar

What did she ask?

If she takes her time a lot she might be a little interested but not super interested

Answer 18

ando90

It's only a been a couple of times. Most of the time she replies within 1hr to 1hr 30min

Answer 19

Gwenhwyfar

I still think she likes you

What did she ask?

Answer 20

ando90

Should I wait a bit first before replying to her. Like she takes her time. So I feel I should take my time too. I just made a comment about something I did on the weekend. My message didn't really need a reply and she asked me about that something on the weekend.

Answer 21

Gwenhwyfar

Not necessary. Answer when you feel like it. She’s not playing games.

Answer 22

cjgsu

Xper 7

Doubt she's interested.
If i was it wouldn't be hrs before i responded

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ando90

1 y
I've noticed her blushing when she approaches me though. Like when I see her in person it's like she interested. She approaches me to talk
cjgsu

1 y
This is what we do when we talk. Talking 2 someone doesn't mean we want 2 date u.

Again she's not interested.
ando90

1 y
But there is definitely something going on when we are around each other. It wasn't just about the talking.

Answer 23

ando90

I've noticed her blushing when she approaches me though. Like when I see her in person it's like she interested. She approaches me to talk

Answer 24

cjgsu

This is what we do when we talk. Talking 2 someone doesn't mean we want 2 date u.

Again she's not interested.

Answer 25

ando90

But there is definitely something going on when we are around each other. It wasn't just about the talking.

Answer 26

Anonymous

She’s playing hard to get. She bought into the modern dating strategies.

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ando90

1 y
It's driving me nuts. Like she replied to my message at 7am this morning. I asked her how her week had been. The replied and asked me hw mine was. Then no reply. Like she techincally hasn't opened my message. As it says delivered. But she has been on Facebook. So she would have seen it. But she always ends up replying
Opinion Owner

1 y
It doesn’t sound like you are a priority. She is clearly not THAT interested or she would make sure you KNOW that she is. Alternatively, if she is interested, but still replying later than “normal”, then she is playing games. You see, both possibilities don’t sound too good. My advice is don’t pay her too much attention and let her lead the show, because that way you will have your answer. Should you hear from her in a timely fashion, then she likes you, but it you don’t hear from her anymore, it means she doesn’t care!!
ando90

1 y
She has replied to me. She was flat out with her studies. I know for a fact she is very devoted to her studies
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Opinion Owner

1 y
It takes a second to text back 😂

Answer 27

ando90

It's driving me nuts. Like she replied to my message at 7am this morning. I asked her how her week had been. The replied and asked me hw mine was. Then no reply. Like she techincally hasn't opened my message. As it says delivered. But she has been on Facebook. So she would have seen it. But she always ends up replying

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

It doesn’t sound like you are a priority. She is clearly not THAT interested or she would make sure you KNOW that she is. Alternatively, if she is interested, but still replying later than “normal”, then she is playing games. You see, both possibilities don’t sound too good. My advice is don’t pay her too much attention and let her lead the show, because that way you will have your answer. Should you hear from her in a timely fashion, then she likes you, but it you don’t hear from her anymore, it means she doesn’t care!!

Answer 29

ando90

She has replied to me. She was flat out with her studies. I know for a fact she is very devoted to her studies

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

It takes a second to text back 😂

Answer 31

JoyGirl | 700 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

She isn’t interested.

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ando90

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Why is she taking long with her replies though?
JoyGirl

1 y
She isn’t interested.
ando90

1 y
Oh wait never mind I didn't read your text properly. But like with her messages she always replies and sometimes she does reply in less than a ln hour

Answer 32

ando90

Why is she taking long with her replies though?

Answer 33

JoyGirl

She isn’t interested.

Answer 34

ando90

Oh wait never mind I didn't read your text properly. But like with her messages she always replies and sometimes she does reply in less than a ln hour

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