Why does she wait so long to open my message and respond?

[Anonymous]

She asked me out and ever since the date was planned I have sent two messages with practical stuff. Before the date was agreed she responded within 10 minutes to each message. Ever since she asked me out, she doesn't open my message hours later and only responds then. Is she subtly telling me she sees me as a friend or is she trying not to seem too eager? She has shown interest in me, by touching, talking a lot to me, being jealous when I talk with other women, she trying to make me jealous with another man...

[Guy13]

because SHE HAD TO ask you out... and the more SHE THOUGHT about it... the Fact SHE HAD TO ask you out has pissed her off. The longer it takes for you to call and close this Deal the more likely Mount Kilimanjaro top will blow off...

[Asker]

Could be, but I think it's not the case here. Half a year ago she got divorced and while she was still married there was big tension between us as in mutual attraction but knowing it was not possible because she was married. So now she is single, I guess I am careful cuz she still grieves. Still she gives me signs she is interested and I was the one to suggest an event and she suggested going together.

[Guy13]

Oh... this would have been great Data to have line itemized under question. So she sees you as a Friend rather than a Boyfriend. Boyfriend gets quick response whereas friends can wait...