Why is she taking so long to reply?

[Anonymous]

She normally replies within 1 minute, its been like 30 minutes

[Alli39]

Chill, it's no big unless she vanishes for like a couple days. And even then, just shoot her another text to check in and assume she's got a lot going on.

[Asker]

Its been 15 hours 💀💀💀

[Alli39]

Again. Days. Check in. She might be having a personal emergency. If there's still not response, after a couple days, just drop it and assume you've either been ghosted or she's otherwise unable to respond and will not in the near future.

[SnowedIn]

Taking a nap. Eating a meal. Working out. Time with her family.

Chill.

If you go after her like this she will drop you like a radioactive potato.

[WhitneySnow]

Totally true!

[SnowedIn]

Thanks!

[Asker]

Yeah its like 1 hour and 20 minutes no response

[SnowedIn]

That is NOTHING.

Patience, Zach.

I've had girls take a day or two.

What if her parents took her out to dinner? Or she's at a movie with her friends? Chill.

She has a life. If you can't accept that now, any relationship you have will crash and burn.

[Asker]

should i just wait 24 hours?

[SnowedIn]

At least. Maybe more. @WhitneySnow how long should he wait?

[Asker]

its been 2 hours and 20 mins 💀💀💀💀

[SnowedIn]

Zach, relax. Patience.

[WhitneySnow]

Give her a couple days to get back to you. Don’t freak out.

[Asker]

I dont think i will ever find a girlfriend

[BlackJeep]

You're complaining about 30 minutes without a reply? You should thank God she's not clingy. Enjoy your freedom

[menina]

Maybe she's busy. Or she's dealing with some kind of problem.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe she’s busy. What’s the last thing you said to her?

[Asker]

“Would 3:30 next Saturday be fine to meet up?”.

[WhitneySnow]

Either she’s busy or she’s not interested. More likely she’s just busy.

[Asker]

the first time i asked to meet up, she said yes of course and it only took a minute. Now its like 40 minutes and still no answer

[WhitneySnow]

Either she’s just busy or she’s not into the idea anymore

[Asker]

its been an hour now, i dont think she's intrested 😢

[ProbablyClueless]

She has a life to live outside of her text conversation with you...

[Nikki1989]

You don't know how to speak?

[Akam93]

People have lives you know.