Why does she take longer to reply now?

[Anonymous]

Girl use to be very quick to reply. Like within 5 min. Now takes an hour or two to reply.

side note: she’s on and off with her boyfriend lol

[Changiis07]

Well that explains a lot. She wants attention and responds fast when things are going bad in her relationship but when things are good she takes a long time to respond because she is with him

[Asker]

So that means she just likes the attention during her bad times right? Like she has no attraction to me or anything

[Changiis07]

It feels like she's just having you on the back burner and as a door mat. Since she is going through a tough time all she probably needs is a friend. So she may or may not be interested in you but as of now she can't give you the attention you deserve because she's going through this in her relationship

[Asker]

Yeah you’re right. I don't know even know why I questioned this. She found my Instagram, has giving me signs like she’s single, but obviously I was reading it wrong. She always agree to hang out too, never talks about her boyfriend. Even thought she might’ve not been into him like that.

[Changiis07]

She probably doesn't want to be with him or is holding on to him because they have history and maybe she is into you since you are saying she's giving you mixed signals I'd be confused as well and questioning it. You can be there as a friend but don't get your hopes up either or let it go and look for someone who is ready to start a relationship. I'm sure you'll know what to do and what you want

[electromagnetic]

When she’s on her boyfriend, you’re off. That’s what it sounds like.

if she hasn’t set clear boundaries on what she is expecting from you as well as her boyfriend, she’ll continue to string you along.

[Asker]

That makes a lot of sense. One question I have is how do women select who they string a long? Like I’ve had this issue before where girls with boyfriend (a lot of times when they’re arguing) come to me and flirt hang out and get close to me. Do they see me as a weak target lol? Or how do they choose what guy they’re talking to while they have a boyfriend

[serious]

Well it seems she is very moody by nature. For her you are not a priority and rightly so because she has a boyfriend.

[Guy13]

There you go. Her emotions are with another and you are a bored time filler.