Why would a girl keep contacting me if she knows my intentions and she doesn’t feel the same?

[Anonymous]

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Maybe she has a position open in the friend-zone department and is considering you for it.

[Asker]

I think you’re spot on. To bad I fell into the trap because I had no idea

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Just ask her point-blank. Maybe she's just unsure of you and wants to get to know you better. If you are around her, don't be meek - don't play into the friend zone and be more assertive, like act like an asshole and then she will like you. Problem is that once you get her, if you stop being an asshole, she will stop being attracted to you.

[Asker]

I can’t get around her because she knows I like her

[BeenThereLovedIt]

That's taking a stance of a bitch-boy. You need to be assertive if you want her. Women don't respond to nice-guys romantically or sexually. Your only use to them is to be their emotional tampon when the next jerk breaks her heart.

[DavidFox]

If she wants a pen pal let her know guys in jail are bored. If she wants to be your friend but rejects hanging out irl, block her and make other friends

[thimmslicc]

you're her plan B
When she gets dumped and pumped. She will run to you.

[Tyrant__33]

What's your intention

[Asker]

I told her I like her. I want a relationship with her

[Tyrant__33]

The girl might be interested. She might be trying to learn more about you and test if you're genuine.

[Asker]

I mean she said directly and indirectly she isn’t interested. It’s been years so if she reciprocated my interest we would’ve dated already

[Tyrant__33]

Ohh I see. And she keep contacting you? I don't know buddy. I think you should ask her. Test her by not responding.

[Asker]

Honesty is something that is allergic to her so asking will do nothing. I think she wants a penpal and nothing more.

[Tyrant__33]

Ohh. Test her, buddy. Ignore her next 2,3 times.

[Tyrant__33]

Same happened to me. Not years, but for months she kept contacting me.