I’m so confused she’ll call and text and I’ve told her if she doesn’t like me leave me alone and then she comes back and then plays hot and cold it’s mentally draining being so confused
If she doesn’t know how she feels about me why does she keep contacting me why can’t she just leave me alone?
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Man that sucks, I can understand why you're feeling so confused. When a girl sends mixed signals like that it can really mess with your head.
A few things could be going on with her:
- Sometimes girls just want attention even if they're not fully into the guy. Like she enjoys having you around but doesn't want a relationship.
- Could be she does like you but is scared of her feelings so she pulls away, then texts again when she misses you. Indecisiveness.
- Maybe she's talking to other guys too and isn't sure who she likes best yet. Keeping her options open.
Either way, it's not fair of her to keep yo-yoing your emotions like that. You told her how it makes you feel and she keeps doing it anyway. At some point you have to look out for yourself, you know?
I'd say next time she hits you up, lay it out straight - tell her you can't do this hot/cold game and if she's really not sure about you, you need space. Stick to it this time too, don't let her sway you back in. You deserve someone who's sure about you bro. Stay strong!
Because she's emotionally juvenile. You dodged a bullet on this one. It's past time for you to man up and block her though.
Leave her please.. I feel your pain, and believe me, when a girl do that to you, means she is not THAT interested in you. Either she is still confuse with what she wants, or simply she is playing you