Why is she ignoring me?

[bulleye]

She ignored me when I was after her in school. And when she came back, I ignored, just to let her taste her own medicine.

I was bit rude and cruel and possessive as well even though she wasn't my girlfriend. I tried acting cool. Last of the straw was when she left me for a threesome (as she said). I was totally against anyone having her body. We had a heated argument and it was over.

last day we met. I saw her but didn't feel talking. She was straight up ignoring me. Not even looking at me although I was at her arms length.

Now she joined my firm as young lawyer. She straight up ignores me even though we sit next to each other. I also heard she is dating a rich guy as said by her reporting manager. Also most guys are into her as I hear them discussing about her in the dinning area or loo.

[CuriousHubby]

She was playing games and honestly will sleep her way to the top! She flat out had a 3 some for fun or to piss you off.

She clearly loves games and happily plays them. She will play all kinds of games at your law firm and get fired or promoted!

Look out she is a real evil women!

[bulleye]

I used to promise sex and dates and back out last minute. Neither was I her boyfriend. infact I asked her to be my fling when she came to me proclaiming her love then.
Don't know if she is playing games but at work she is well respected and very talented. She could crack ideas as fast as some experienced lawyers. All men have their eyes on her and most want to take her on a date. I also heard it was her boyfriend who made her entry into the firm easier.
Whatever it maybe she straight up ignores me. It makes me anxious and I am constantly looking to see if she would even look at me. She comes, do her job, enjoys it very well, socialise pretty much, go back.

[CuriousHubby]

Lmao she is pretty evil and is happily using you but is worried your using her.
See so many girl bosses like this just evil and using who they wanna for things.
Work lust or just company.

She will cross the wrong person and right now sounds like she is moving on and ghosting you

[bulleye]

How is she using me? Care to explain? I am confused

[CuriousHubby]

For company a way to spend her time to not be alone even though you ditched her.

[Anonymous]

You are merely focussing too much attention on someone who ignores you rather than someone who does not ignore you. These test games are unhealthy, believe me. I know this because I used to neglect in a passive aggressive style to gain attention, but the other person would do the same, and guess what? We were at a dead end because no one wanted to be the bigger person. Find someone who will not play these ignore games; they are tiresome and a waste of time.

[DishLady]

You seem to be on the vindictive side if you're "letting her taste her own medicine" so she's right to ignore you. You've also got the possessive nature women today find intolerable, especially professional women. So there's your answer.

[ProbablyClueless]

I feel like this is pretty self explanatory. She's ignoring you because y'all's relationship is toxic as shit.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You just described your relationship ending terribly and you’re surprised she has no desire to interact with you?

[bulleye]

She has been friends with all her ex's. It just me getting treated with anger.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I don't know what went on with her exes but if she’s holding a grudge, I say it’s better to keep your distance and let her

[cuttl]

It sounds like entertaining you is not in her job description.

She is working.

[Anonymous]

She playing games

[Opinion Owner]

And she's a Coward

[Anonymous]

I dont know too