Girls, Do you love your man because he provides for you?

[Anonymous]

Do you love for your partners provision?

[B_nash]

I choose to provide for myself but if you’re married many may have different point of views. In marriage they say its a man job to provide. Honestly I think we both should be providing at least something. Everything should be equal and not just viewed on one gender. In a relationship I’m providing for myself.

[Asker]

I respect that

[B_nash]

Yes I’m not selfish and totally don’t wanna rely on one person. That’s too much dead weight. I think it should be partnership

[CasKimchi]

I wouldn’t consider it love if it was because he provides for me. I mean I believe love should be when both parties are providing for each other. It should be a team effort. I mean in a situation where she’s unable to provide she should at least make up for it to show that she appreciates what you do.

[postempestas]

That's just another bonus, it's not the reason I am dating him.

[Womenist]

We don't need you to provide for us. We can take care of ourselves, thank you.