Are women aware that their beauty will soon fade and better find a decent man? And not a bad boy?

[Anonymous]

As much as they like to deny it, women LOVE bad boys. They do. Almost every bad boy I see has a girlfriend or even a wife. Whether they deny it or not, the tattooed, steroid-induced, gun-wielding, drug-dealing, gang-affiliated, biker, rapper bad boys are appealing to most women, at least based on my experience.

Has it ever occurred to these women that one day, their beauty will soon fade and they'd better find a decent man? The men whom they've rejected until they've become rich and then they want them. It's like what happened when Mary Jane Watson didn't like Peter Parker until she found out she was Spider-Man.

Female hypocrisy just astounds me. When they're young, they want the bad boys and thugs. When they get old, their beauty fades and then they go for the good men with money. It's just not fair, that's how I see it.

[Anonymous]

Dude--it's clear that your frustrated. And it's not much of a leap to guess that you're frustrated because you're not having any luck with the ladies you find attractive. If I had to guess, at the root of your problem is that your dating strategy is ass-backwards. Let me explain:

You think that you'll win the girl by showcasing your "I'm a good boyfriend" qualities, correct? You think that by displaying that you're a caring attentive "good boyfriend" kinda guy, that girls should see that, realize that you're a much better long term mate than a "bad boy" and you'll be all set, yes?

The problem with that strategy (reasonable though it sounds), is that you've got the order of attraction reversed. You don't display your "good boyfriend" qualities FIRST and then become sexually attractive to a girl. You have to establish a sexual attraction FIRST and then (and ONLY then) do your "good boyfriend" qualities matter at all.

The time to display that you're attentive and caring is when she's naked, sweaty, and basking in the afterglow of a good solid orgasm after a solid round of sexy time. THAT's what the guys who are having more success than you realize. THAT'S what you need to change.

[Opinion Owner]

SUPERB answer right here!

[Asker]

You cannot fool me into simping. Thou shalt not attempt such trickery.

[Opinion Owner]

How am I trying to fool you into simping dude? Read what I wrote--I'm suggesting the exact opposite. Establish sexual attraction FIRST. Only THEN do relationship qualities matter. Do NOT try to put relationship before sex.

[Asker]

What sexual attraction? How do I know she's not going to falsely accuse me of rape?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys who do well with girls--the kind of guy you want to be--create sexual attraction with the girls FIRST. The girls they like find these guys sexually desirable. That's how they manage to get with them.

[Anonymous]

Women like powerful men. When you’re 20 not many men have much money, so bad boys, who are intimidating rebels are more powerful. By 30 most bad boys are looked down on so to not earning enough while the guys who became accountants or whatever now drive BMWs and have more societal clout. At this point women “grow out” or liking bad boys quite often. Of course bad boys still do okay if they don’t fall apart. And bad boys who have money do great.

Anyway while some women do prefer bad boys (especially short term) I wouldn’t focus on that. Rather assume women like powerful men and that’s it. Power can be conveyed a lot of ways - and almost all of them attract some women. Charisma, success, intelligence, humour, strength, popularity, coolness etc.

[Asker]

But see, some of these bad boys aren't even "powerful men," yet they still want them. Why is that?

[Opinion Owner]

Because there’s always some power in being a bad boy. They seem like they could fight, cheat etc to get stuff.

[Asker]

Then they get pregnant with the crooks' babies and the would-be fathers either abandon them, get incarcerated or die. The cycle repeats.

[Opinion Owner]

To some extent - yes and that’s nature. I have seen studies suggesting women who didn’t grow up around father figures are more likely to go for bad boy types. There’s a reason for that of course - if you’re in an environment where fathers don’t stick around, you want the most aggressive and “capable of being independent” genes for your kids. If fathers do stick around you want a mix of stability with strength and resources as well.

[Asker]

It's like that with two-parent girls also. Only they go for the snarky, sarcastic jerks or the gun-toting bikers. I saw one girl who ran away from her parents' home to be with her boyfriend, who looked to be on steroids, rode a motorcycle and even had a face tattoo.

[Cherokeehp]

Yeah sure. One day I’m gonna be old, wrinkly, and probably bald cause female baldness runs in my family. But for right now, I’m a sexy bitch. I’ve fucked around with tattooed meat head drug dealers and I’ve messed around with cute shy dudes. It’s fun as hell. I’ve also rejected more dudes than I can count. For right now I’m in a long term relationship with someone I love. If we were to break up I’d probably just go back to dating multiple people or having friends with benefits. I don’t like bad boys, I just like having fun with people I’m attracted to.

[Asker]

And women wonder why so many men are going MGTOW...

[Cherokeehp]

Wtf else am I supposed to be doing? I’ve been in my current relationship for 3 years. Was I supposed to be looking for marriage in my teens?

[Asker]

No. But it would be in your best interest to choose a good man who will provide for you and not some rambunctious crook who may be strong on the outside, but would abandon you when thou art having difficulty or problems.

[Cherokeehp]

I have a good man. As I said before I am currently in a long term relationship and happy. I love him very much. But if it doesn’t work out I’ll survive. Sure it’ll hurt, but I enjoy being single almost as much as I enjoy being in a relationship. Dating is fun.

[Asker]

Only when women are in their prime, but post-35, it fades and dating is no longer fun.

[Cherokeehp]

Well I’m not in my 30s.

[Asker]

But fast forward to 15 years later.

[Cherokeehp]

Ok... and? Even if I was less attractive and single in my 30s, life still goes on. For starters it’s not that hard to get laid, and even if I couldn’t we live in an age of high tech sex toys. Having a man isn’t really a necessity. It’s nice, but I am capable of taking care of myself. We also live in a time where cosmetic surgery and augmentations are becoming more and more accessible. A little Botox here, a little makeup, and a good wig and I’ll be good as new. Everything is fake nowadays anyways.

[Asker]

Good, take care of yourself and don't rely on some thirsty simp.

[Cherokeehp]

Thirsty simps are the best kind of guys.

[Asker]

Only if they give you money. It seems that you're just using them, after you've had your fun with the thugs. Can't have it both ways.

[Cherokeehp]

Why can’t I just use both of them for money?

[Asker]

See, there you go. You just want to USE men, you don't really love men, you love what men can provide.

[Cherokeehp]

For the most part that is true. Personally I’m not really fond of most people, but since I’m at least moderately pretty guys like to offer me money and gifts and stuff. I am very fond of money and gifts. But I actually really like my boyfriend. He’s good company, and he seems to enjoy being with me in return. I love him, he loves me, and so all is good. He literally encourages me to accept money and gifts from the dudes who try to flirt with me. He likes money and gifts as much as I do. Dudes shower me in free stuff in the hopes of getting my attention and then I go and share it with my boyfriend and then we have sex and be happy. It’s not my fault dudes like simping.

[CheeseBurgah]

Jesus Christ.. what a bitch

[Cherokeehp]

@CheeseBurgah How exactly is it my fault that men want to give me their money?

[Asker]

@CheeseBurgah ignore her, she's just showing off her typical female narcissism.

[Cherokeehp]

This is not typical “female narcissism”. It’t not narcissism, and even if it was it’s not typical. That’s just the reality of my life. Men offer me money and free stuff for simply being pretty and you expect me to say no?

[Asker]

Yet, you cheat on them and put them in the friend zone. Thou shalt not have thy cake and eat it too.

[Cherokeehp]

I’ve literally never cheated on anyone. But I have put a shit ton of dudes in the friend zone.

[Asker]

Sounds like having your cake and eating it too.

[Cherokeehp]

What’s wrong with that? I live my life. I stay loyal to my boyfriend. But when someone offers me free stuff that I want then I’m taking it.

[MsLivy]

I dont get what's so confusing, if a guy can punch a baby whilst smoking a thiccy Cuban cig it just screams that he's father material

[Asker]

Yes, when women are young, it's whoever they want. The thugs, rude ones, etc. It never occurred to them that their beauty will soon fade and they'd better find a good man.

[MsLivy]

I agree like I said, we just use good guys for money and baby punching bad boys for fun

[Asker]

And women wonder why so many men are going MGTOW...

[MsLivy]

I know right! Fully justified

[Asker]

At this point, the only good woman, is a dead woman.

[TheFlak38]

Only Eastern European are aware of that. They are much smarter than other women, especially those in America and western Europe. Eastern European women get married young with the beta and do some alpha fucks behind his back. Those who get married with some drunkard get divorced soon, enjoy their child support and alimony payments and then turn into the slut they wanted to be in their early 20's.

[Anonymous]

no, they aren't aware. They are deluded by the lie of feminism. I love seeing lonely older liberal feminists without kids. They will die alone without spawning any more hateful children like themselves.

[KrakenAttackin]

Women have been chased by thirsty men for so long they can't comprehend that one day they will be invisible to men.

[psychoticanimallover]

I do love a nice pimp.

[Asker]

How so?

[psychoticanimallover]

I don't know, there’s just something about pimps that gets me all riled up.

[Asker]

Typical hypergamy. All women are the same.

[Iron_Man]

They’ll find out when they hit 35

[Asker]

When they are young, it is any man they want. Has it ever occurred to them that their beauty will soon fade and they'd better find a good man?

[1031ent]

Work on yourself instead of blaming women.