Why do so many men believe women are less attractive after 30?

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I'm beginning to believe it's an excuse for older men to pray on younger women. Sure, they'll argue that "women lose half of their eggs by thirty, their biological clock is almost up, they're nearly infertile," but honestly, dating someone for their fertility alone sounds incredibly shallow. Plus, it seems relative. If the legal age of consent was way younger, like thirteen, I feel as though men would begin to argue women begin to lose their value after 20. Another point is, why is a woman's value determined by their attractiveness or ability to procreate?

Paulalove98 · Accepted Answer

Women can still have healthy children till 35, after 35 is when there’s more risks, this isn’t rocket science, people can research themselves and still get the same results if they think I’m lying. My mom had me at 38 and she’s 63 today but looks 50! Coming from a 24 year old, I get told I look younger most of the time since I take care of my skin and don’t wear makeup or drink or abuse my skin but I’ve seen women still in their 30s look young. My coworker is almost 34 and her husband got her pregnant at 33 it didn’t seem to stop him.. lots of celebrities and people are having kids in their 30s too these days, ideally women want children in their 20s like mid to late I mean I would like a child at 27-29 but sometimes life doesn’t go as planned, but I think such men with close minds live their life with blinders and not with open eyes or open minds. I also say this because when I was 18-19 I was manipulated by lots of older men even now this still happens, I’m open to a relationship with a man up to 34-35 but being with a guy twice my age or hit on by a guy twice my age just disgusts me and if he only wants me because I’m “young” or “fertile “ it’s a turn off automatically. I want a man to love me for more than my body but for who I am inside too and my character not for my age. Ideally I want a child before I’m 30 hopefully or at 30-31 but it’s not just for a man, it’s just when I believe I’ll be ready for children. Age gaps can happen in everyday relationships but if much older men are actively seeking an 18 year old yeah that’s weird.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Men prefer to prey on younger girls, ideally between 18 and 25. They would of course prey on younger ones let's say 14+ if they could and if they would know that they cannot get a criminal record for that kind of pedophilia.

A woman at age 30 has lost all the interest to men for a number of reasons:

1. The breasts start sagging an for a number of men, this is a turn off.

2. The vagina tends to be more distended at that age than at age 18.

3. The first wrinkles make women less attractive

4. Women tend to know what they want at that age and the wool cannot be pulled over their eyes as easily.

5. Women usually have a much stronger character and personality at that age than at age 18. Men hate it when women are able to oppose their arguments.

It is in the genes of men to want to fornicate with younger women because they think that at a younger age, they are more able to reproduce.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Because they ARE. Attractiveness in women means "exhibiting the biological markers of youth, health, and fertility". Those begin to fall off very rapidly in a woman's late 20's. It's exactly the same mentality as that which says that a man is too short to date, since he's less likely to be able to protect and provide; biological roots don't care about modern moralities. Shallow? Yes. But effective- and natural selection doesn't give a single solitary damn about depth, just efficacy. THAT is why a woman's value is determined by her ability to procreate- because societies that see it that way outbreed those that don't.

Likewise, while claiming that feeling compelled to follow the biological path that the last hundred million years have pushed you towards is "shallow" isn't likely to win you many friends, saying that just SEEING THE EVIDENCE OF YOUR OWN EYES is "shallow" is just going to turn people further against you. Think it through, woman- no one owes you their attraction.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

What else woman's value should be determined by? men are valuing looks and fertility.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not that men consciously consider a woman's fertility, but we are genetically programmed to be attracted to women when they are most fertile and physically able to bear and raise children. It's not a conscious choice, we just find women most attractive when they are younger, 18 - 30.

Why is a woman's value determined by their attractiveness or ability to procreate? Because the entire biological and evolutionary purpose of attraction IS reproduction. That's how the species survived and perpetuated itself.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

How far after 30? Like early 30s or are we including women who are 40 and up? Cmon now 😅 Sure early 30s shouldn't be an issue for most men but late 30s and up it becomes harder to have kids right? Fertility is a huge thing for people whether you like it or not. You want to know if your partner wants kids and if they can even have them in the first place. Thats a reasonable reason to not be in a relationship with someone.

HighValue · Answer

Anyone that understands biology and wants a healthy family will want to avoid starting a new relationship with a woman past 30.

Anonymous · Answer

Because men never grow up in that department. Even when they are 60 they will still be perving at young girls.

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t feel that way

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