So I’m getting a lot of mixed signals and weird vibes at times from this one girl. First off she texted me first back in June (I never gave her my number). Been talking on an off, then in October she mentions this guy she’s been talking too over seas for 2 years and they have been discussing dating after Covid. I guess he hadn’t spoken to her for a week or something? I don't know and she has never brought him up since. But she reaches out to me all the time for stuff she wants or something I’m working on.
Then talks to me for a few days then goes off the grid it seems, then she will usually text me then. She also will message me on Instagram more often, sometimes she texts first, sometimes I do, we had plans to go somewhere together in December but she canceled (after I bought the tickets of course), then asked me about getting coffee one day, then she canceled that because of a job interview that got extended into when we would meet which I get, of course she waited to tell me at 11pm the night before which is usually when she texts back anyway, not usually but it’s been a while that’s when she will say something it at usually if that makes sense.
We have another coffee meet up here in a week or 2, but I’m hesitant? Also, she called me funny which ok cool I guess? Sends me voice messages all the time which is new to me! Never had a girl do that before... there are many other odd situations and I’m not sure how I feel about this... what does getting coffee usually mean? Why does it feel like I’m being used, but not being used? Any Advice or has anyone else experienced this? There’s a bit more to this but wanted to keep it kinda shorter 😂
Then talks to me for a few days then goes off the grid it seems, then she will usually text me then. She also will message me on Instagram more often, sometimes she texts first, sometimes I do, we had plans to go somewhere together in December but she canceled (after I bought the tickets of course), then asked me about getting coffee one day, then she canceled that because of a job interview that got extended into when we would meet which I get, of course she waited to tell me at 11pm the night before which is usually when she texts back anyway, not usually but it’s been a while that’s when she will say something it at usually if that makes sense.
We have another coffee meet up here in a week or 2, but I’m hesitant? Also, she called me funny which ok cool I guess? Sends me voice messages all the time which is new to me! Never had a girl do that before... there are many other odd situations and I’m not sure how I feel about this... what does getting coffee usually mean? Why does it feel like I’m being used, but not being used? Any Advice or has anyone else experienced this? There’s a bit more to this but wanted to keep it kinda shorter 😂
