There’s this man working for facebook who added me to his business account and proposed. His proposal was really just an attempt to make peace after our falling out, years ago, as I know him personally, offline. However, he said he loves me and said that he’s too disabled by Autism to be with me. After we made peace, a few months after claiming to be unmarried, it says on his profile that he’s engaged to another woman. I figured he wanted to be left alone and left him alone, however I get posts every day sent to me about how ‘God must’ve created this beautiful woman, just for me, my beautiful soulmate;’ and so on, with a picture of a woman’s face on his work profile pic. I don’t still have feelings for this man. I just find the whole thing strange. I’d normally regard it as a warning to be left alone, except I’ve left him alone for several months, since this started going on and he reached out to me. It wasn’t me reaching out to him.
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What’s going on here? Why all the erratic behaviour?
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It's typical for people working for facebook to be socially shallow and all about publishing themself, especially if it seems to promote the facebook way.
I don't see any erratic behaviour in what you describe.
You don’t find it strange that a guy two months after saying he’s in love with me, says he’s engaged to someone else and acts like she’s ‘someone God created for him?’ Right after he’s told me that he can’t begin to express how much he loves me?
I think it’s bullshit.
I kinda find it 'religious'. Religious people tend to feel whatever happens was 'god's plan'. Also, I think some religious people (usually I call these cults mind) believe that all women where gods gift for them. I don't find it erratic, but I do not want anything to do with that myself.
Why do you care though? where you happy they loved you? are you jealous of their new relationship? are you concerned for their wife what they still tell you they love you? are you sure its the kind of love you think? I know many Christian types speak of loveing everyone weirdly all the time
He wants sex. No big mystery there.
It’s confusing to me. Is he trying to feed as many women pickup lines as he can? I know he’s not in a relationship, as recently a mutual friend was trying to get me to give this guy another chance.
What's confusing about an ex trying to get laid?
He’s not my ex. He’s a guy I liked and as I thought I’d already clarified, I don’t pick up on social cues or subtleties of human behaviour.
Hence the whole point of my question.
Some guy you used to have sex with... whatever you want to call it. He is trying to get laid.
Just block his posts, problem solved.
We never had sex, dated or kissed. I just fancied him. So he’s trying to get laid by me, or by anyone he can find?
Seems like he is posting about his fiance.
He doesn’t have a fiancé in real life. My mutual friends have confirmed it.
I didn’t ask them, however they recently tried to make me jealous by mentioning him to other women in front of me.
So, he's lying by saying he is engaged on his profile?
Yes it seems like it
Why even associate with that nonsense?
Good point. I arrived at the same conclusion eight minutes ago and stopped following the guy’s posts.
Good decision
Maybe he doesn't wanna let you go because you are a woman. I do that too sometimes