My girlfriend told me all girls are sluts? Is that a red flag?

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My girlfriend told me all girls are sluts and that most of them cheat. This kinda makes me wonder about her. Is she making up excuses because thats what she does? Another things that concerns me is that her friends are males. She knows how much I hate that, but tells me im insecure!

Spade07 · Accepted Answer

In my experience woman have far more temptation than men. and get the next really fast. But I have advice for you because this reminds me of when i was 19. And i wish i had this mindset then. I know you like the girl but you're not gonna marry this girl most likely. She is giving you value and you are giving her value. Dude! You have a girlfriend. Enjoy this. I know you want love and it may not be that and I'm sorry. But don't take what you have for granted. Be okay with the idea u may not marry this girl or be in a serious relationship ever. She gives you value. Take that value and give her value as well. Learn and experiment with her. Use this relationship to learn and grow. Not saying that you shouldn't eventually dump her if she really is cheating and a slut but im saying she gives you value. Accept what the relationship is but you can still get value out of it. Don't be like me and cut all ties because she doesn't love or like u as much as u her. Don't leave cause she is a cheater. I know I sound crazy to some degree but trust me. Get something out of all of this. There are moments and pearls of beauty in all of this if you just take the time to be grateful. Yes you deserve someone who does not cheat but there is value in this. Don't let your emotions throw away the value that has been handed to you. DO NOT FAIL to look on the brightside. And be sure to let go of your expectations. Took me a long time to see there is a point to dating someone who you will not marry. There is value there if u let it. And when u go on to the next girl u will be better for it. Better socially for sure and better in other ways too. Don't make the same mistake I did. When you're too picky u miss out of a lot of good things. Doesn't mean u are settling just means u are going to harvest the good of that relationship and then let it go once u feel it is time. I hope you listen to my advice. Use this to learn how to be better with women. It is a win win situation. Value for value. You're under 18 too so this is good. Whatever you do, do not make the mistake in believing the relationship has a chance to be love or that you are going to marry this girl. Accept what it is and harvest the good. Unless u got another girl waiting to date you who is any different than her then trust me I have given you good advice. I wish someone told me this. I was too into the idea of love that i didn't care about anything else. But there is a lot of good in everything else too. Don't miss out on it especially when love isn't there yet. It will come one day but dont sit around not accepting value until it comes. And stop being jealous it will not help anything. Like i said be grateful for the value you are getting. Doesn't mean you don't deserve better or more but be grateful for what you got and enjoy the value that is there. Be cool bro. Sorry I had to break the truth to you but follow my advice. Trust me. When you're like 21 you'll be like... Damn he was right.

scott04sa22 · Accepted Answer

You need to rise up then punch your stupid bitch girlfriend's mouth then tell her that she doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about!

No all girls doesn't did anal sex or butt sex

No all girls doesn't do threesomes

And etc

Do yourself a favor and dump your girlfriend. WHAT SHE SAID IS A HUGE RED FLAG 🚩. I know it really really sucks but this IS still good people in the world. Do let her boss you around too. watch the hangover part 1 stu was in a bad marriage until he had the balls to separate from his controlling wife

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

She’s wrong about the ”all”. No, not all women are sluts or cheaters. There are however too many who are. Both men and women. So many people have narcissistic tendencies, lack morals, sleep around, cheat on their partner, leave their partner as soon as it’s not new and exciting anymore and so on. To find someone to have a healthy life long relationship with is very difficult, most won’t get to experience it.

UnlovedWife · Accepted Answer

She is very insecure and has low self esteem. She wants to turn you off the other girls.

KibblesBits · Answer

If I had a girlfriend tell me that I'd respond with "and all guys are sluts, everbody's a slut, it's nasty" something like that. Then we would laugh and have a good time.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Major red flag. She's not only generalizing but is also trying to make you believe into something which isn't true and good for you. Stay away from her, dude.

Anonymous · Answer

then your bitch girlfriend too is a slut, and all the men are a pimp controlling sluts.

Eldoradο · Answer

Sorry but your girlfriend is stupid af

exitseven · Answer

She will not make you happy.

Anonymous · Answer

she's probably joking with you

Anonymous · Answer

She speaks the truth.

bclbn77006 · Answer

partially its true.

Anonymous · Answer

She is the slut

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