Any advice on dating black women? Why are the ghetto types usually less attractive and feminine yet still so different from other black women overall?

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I’m just trying to understand what makes ghetto black women so different from black women overall.

Like the biggest thing I’ve noticed is that they respond to me so much differently compared to other black women I’ve met from other places.

The ones I’ve come across from the ghettos just seemed so much more unwelcoming towards me for whatever reason compared to the ones I’m normally used to.

But then again I understand that they likely have grown distrusting of men in general due to the prevalence of single motherhood.

I’ve learned to avoid black women from the Detroit/Chicago areas because it just hasn’t gone down the smoothest road. But that’s my own experience. Maybe I just haven’t met the right black women there in the right places at the right time.

I’m always open to more advice but those are areas I frequently visit.

I’m just wondering why black women from ghetto areas usually seem less attractive.

Its just never really made sense to me why they are so different from the black women I’ve encountered in my area.

And I’m wondering if this has anything to do with not wanting to invite trouble due to the prevalence of rape and domestic abuse.

I do empathize with their situation as they probably aren’t hoping to attract more men to begin with due to past mistreatment.

But how do we solve these issues?

Its not right for any woman to have to assume masculine responsibilities in parenting. And this might also be why I’ve generally found them less feminine.

Either way I feel as though there’s still a lot more I just don’t know much about.

Like I’ve heard that even though dating black women is a new experience for a lot of white guys they just don’t want to be reminded of it constantly.The general vibe I got from these videos is that black women are generally good options. Despite how the media makes them out to be.

None of this mind games and inconsistency that white girls feed into.

I can appreciate how they have standards and set boundaries.
Any advice on dating black women? Why are the ghetto types usually less attractive and feminine yet still so different from other black women overall?
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