Why is there a perfect man standard applied everywhere?

[humayun500]

I am 5'4 with 7.8cm penis, and I have lost dates and relationships with girls because "I'm not man enough", on the other hand I and the rest of men accept any type of women tall, short, boy chest, obese or even manly ones.

I have dated girls without putting any of my standards in front of me, I even dated this overly obese woman which was my biggest mistake because not only she was rude and assertive but also sex with her was terrible because my penis couldn't even reach her vagina she started to cheat on me a lot and even though I knew about it I ignored it and yet she broke up with me.

So yeah that technically makes me a virgin, and all my friends have already lost theirs which made me into that loser friend.

Why are women like this? I never judged a woman based on their looks and yet they treat me less manly than they should. This is more about body shaming men.

[Ousaf1]

I don't know where you live but it's a lot worse in America, I have heard. Women in general have higher standards but that doesn't mean that some men don't have high standards. For example ask 10 men and 10 women to rate themselves /10 you will see that women will rate themselves way higher than what they actually are. You being short and having a small dick already puts your value very low. Don't try to force a relationship or sex with women I would rather focus on myself and meet women on my path. There are also different ways to pleasure women so a small dick isn't that important. Looks and body matter a lot so don't trust the bs you see online about "accepting every body type". That's just some women trying to be nice but they won't date a fat dude for example.

[GirlyGal20]

I'm much taller then you, but I don't treat you as less then. I'm just not attracted to shorter men.

[Ousaf1]

You want to feel protected? 🤔

[GirlyGal20]

@Ousaf1 yeah I think there's a bit of that. Also I feel more feminine with a tall guy. Also if I have to bend down to kiss my man that's a turn off for me

[Ousaf1]

"let me kiss you on the cheek little boy" I'm dead haha. You are right I would also like my woman to be as tall as me or shorter than me. That has nothing to do with insecurities

[Ousaf1]

Another question if you don't mind, what's "tall" for a guy

[GirlyGal20]

@Ousaf1 let's just say.. a guy half my size talked to me about this at a party and me being me didn't understand he was interested. Later on he sat on the armchair of the couch (only time he was taller) and kept invading my space bit by bit while talking to me. Seemed like he was going in for a kiss and I nearly fell off the couch to avoid it. Also yes the turn off also comes from the childlike size

[GirlyGal20]

@Ousaf1 5"11 perhaps?

[Ousaf1]

Thought you were gonna say 6'0 so that's a W for the boys haha thanks 👍🏼