Do men need to man up and have standards?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

How does one choose to be a simp? Or to quit being one? And are you sure rhis description is accurate?

And if we're honest, most self proclaimed "alphas" fit the exact same description. The only ones I know in real life, well, except for the first one (self respect) because they're selfish and third one because they don't hear you out (and think they're cool because they're dominant by being assholes), "alphas" break the bro code because they're sex addicts, and they justify it with "survival of the fittest".

The self proclaimed alphas hate high mileage women because they're insecure of an older fucker having impressed her more with a bigger dick than his, it's not like most "alphas" are look for commitment anyway so why would mileage matter.

ATM as in paying women? Aren't the red-pill-woke guys obsessed with income? Didn't you say you need money in order to be attractive?

Who isn't always a victim? The fact that you blame a large group of men, probably what you consider 99% of men, shows that you're a victim player.

What does business trust have to do with simps? Businesses work with legal agreements and legal consequences. Besides, nobody deliberately shows their true private life personality in their business cards.

Don't alphas chase women because they believe that the male biological role is to spread the seed as far and wide as possible?

9. same shit again.

10. Do alphas hate simps too? Why then?

There's no such thing as simp or alpha. Let's help you understand why.

Lack of self respecting defined as not having a big ego, is a result of not being committed enough to your goals. That's pretty much the root cause of the pathology you're trying to pin down.

Same applies for everything else in that list. If you are committed to a goal, you are not going to waste time on attention whores, which S. I. M. P stands for.

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Sonorous · Accepted Answer

Most men do have standards. Just not complex ones. It's just in men's nature to chase & it's in female nature to be chased.

But when a female can just go online & have millions of guys (including chads) ready to please her in any way imaginable simply because she's got a vagina, it does something to the mind & I doubt it's healthy. Now we got 3's thinking they're 10's. 💀

So I'd just agree with someone that more men need to simp less & even have more strict standards for sexually fueled interactions. Inflating egos to the degree that many men do nowadays is a dangerous thing. They're just feeding an insatiable beast.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

If you don't chase woman and date a woman who chases after you, you are going to get a girl that has also chased other guys and likely has slept with them too. The point of chasing is to get a girl that other guys cannot get so that when you get her she is yours and nobody else's. She stays loyal because she is a loyal person, not because she is scared you will punish her or because you force her to be loyal and if she chased you, she will have a wandering eye and you will have to work hard to keep her loyal.

Evelyn99 · Accepted Answer

Yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

It is madness to expect everyone else in society to change, there will always be SIMP's, and whores. AS civilized people we must learn to recognize, deal with and avoid them.

Frankly i think your looking at a SIMP the wrong way, they are an indication of a culture dominated by sluts calling themselfs women. A direct result of the abolition of marriage and the values of family.

The characteristics of a SIMP is a man trying to demonstrate his value to women who value no man, less either party would already be married.

This really is the problem of sluts and prostitution which is essentially what the women SIMP's are chasing are. In the past we use to condemn such women and their irresponsible behavior out of the problems they are creating for society. Problems the cause not only directly, but with their single parent children. That is if they bother to carry their weight with any contribution to the chain of life at all.

Theses women are whores and instead of letting them die and suffer from the natural consequences of their reckless behavior we are bankrolling them with goverment aid.
Naturally the homewreckers have multiplied seeing as for 50+ years uncle Sam was offering them more money than most of the men available to them could compete with.

IveGotTheSixG · Answer

One of my best friends is a chick magnet. He's smart, gorgeous, and he's a "word-smith".

He's a player, but he doesn't hide it. He wants one thing, and one thing only. How can you hate a guy who's being honest? lol

I went out with him to the bars on many occasions. They say that bears can smell fear. lol

Joe feared no one. I'm not saying that we can all attain the Joe level of Zen.

Do men need to man up and have standards?

But he had it, and he surely wasn't a simp. lol

Soteris · Answer

Oh, I think men needs to have standards, just not the ones you are thinking of.

For example, if anyone wants to be in a relationship then I think they need to at least make sure they themselves are not a train-wreck. Things like addressing mental illness, maintaining hygiene standards, learning how to manage relationships and such things are important life skills.

If we could borrow a few things from women then I would also put in some fashion sense and normalizing makeup for men. It is truly an untapped well of potential since guys really dont even make an attempt to improve their own looks outside of perhaps styling their mustache.

But here you are pushing toxic masculinity as if being a worthless failure is the male ideal. No thanks, I do not want to be a pathetic creature like Andrew Tate who obsess about unimportant and shallow aspects of life.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

I already know you won't value my opinion because of my genitalia but here goes..

literally all of that can be applied to "alphas"- which is dumb and a immediately red flag for their iq but hey ho. In fact most of the time, its those so strongly opposed to it who are the definition of it frankly. it's ironic.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

11) "Simps" complain about simps

12) "Simps" treat women like shit because they think women like bad boys

13) "Simps" care more about other people's opinion than their own, hence why they treat women like shit

14) "Simps" think they're alphas and openly declare themselves as such

15) "Simps" take self esteem from others because they are bereft of their own

16) "Simps" are emotionally fragile, hence why they fear a woman's judgement

17) "Simps" ironically try to tell women what they want while covertly being obsessed with what they want

18) "Simps" are two-faced and weak

19) "Simps" have no concept of being compendious

20) "Simps" hate men

Curmudgeon · Answer

Well, one simple standard is the starting point.

Obviously more standards are better, but the *first* standard is to answer this question: "Is she really worth it?"

And for the bitches, the answer is an obvious and emphatic NO!

Levin · Answer

Absolutely. I won't sleep with anything that moves, unlike most men. Getting laid is no achievement if the girl is low quality.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Whatever standards we have, some crybaby feminazi on here will moan about it, deem it as 'unrealistic' and tell us that we aren't 'quality men', because we don't want to date a certain type of woman.

exitseven · Answer

When I wa sa kid there was no such thing as a simp. We need to go back to the 80s. Even the dweebs had more guts.

AviatorTom · Answer

Men  have   standards. It's just that some people don't like them.

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately guys are never going to stop simping. And women are just going to become more and more entitled because of it.

WhyohWhy69 · Answer

Only losers use the words “simp” “beta” and “alpha.”

Anonymous · Answer

you have plenty of men on here who say they won't date a woman over 30. you call that lacking in standards?

Anonymous · Answer

leftists and feminists think manning up should be to have no standards

Paris13 · Answer

Some, Hun. xxoo

Starrrboy · Answer

Simp is the cause of global warming 🤣..

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