That is just silly. I have no idea how young society can put such nonsense into our heads.
I used to think like that as well, looking back to my younger years and all my friends and their 1.2 million ex's, I was exactly in your shoes too, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin at 19 years old (yikes).
Save yourself for the special guy, because he must be honored to be your first, if not then he might not be so special you think he is.
When you reach my age, people actually respect you a lot more for being like that and wished they also waited when they were younger.
no it's not a turn off. my first thought would be that you just haven't met someone where the circumstances were right yet, but you would be interesting to me because you have standards. and as for you mentioning other girls I know plenty of them who get guys but really are losers. you're not a loser and no one thinks you are.
If you're hesitant or unsure about saying that you've never had one before, you don't have to necessarily say that you've never had a boyfriend, specially since they've asked if you're currently dating anyone.
Besides, if you're looking for a guy or if there's a guy looking for a girl, I think it's better that they lack experience rather than having too much experience.
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Not at all...if a girl says that I find her more interesting and appealing. Well it certainly has nothing to do with your looks why you never had a boyfriend because your very beautiful...total hottie. you must be really shy around guys or insecure about intimacy or something- don't get that. Maybe you shut guys out and put up walls...who knows. only you do.
Nope! It isn't sad, you're not a loser... you just didn't meet anyone special enough yet. You will though.
It doesn't make real men run away or turn them off; it brings out their gentlemanly side and protective instincts. So just make sure you find a real man not a kid in a man's body :-)
It is not a turn off. It is a turn off when a girl brags about how many guys she's been with.
but I understand where you are coming from. I do sometimes think a girl is inexperienced if she has never had a boyfriend before, but I am apt to teach her some experience ;)!. Its just that some guys might take it in a bad way and have an attitude of "Oh, I'm not gonna waste my time on her because I know she's insecure".
hey we all have to start short, you just have to be willing to take chances.
If a guy asks if you're dating anyone, don't feel a need to jump into "i never had a bf" - itll make you seem insecure about it or make you seem like you're jumping the gun and wanting to dive into a relationship. Don't be insecure about it, its OK, you're attractive, and you have plenty of life left to have a boyfriend. It isn't a turn off that you haven't had a boyfriend, but it just raises the questions "why not".
Well girl what you need to do in you,r case is start out by trying some thing new if a guy ask you if you are seeing some one just say no and leave the rest out and as far as turn off to guy in a word no but at you,r young age you have to take baby step be for you can run so stop telling guy that you never had a boyfriend and just start date some one that you like hope this help you
Considering how very rarely I'm even willing to date anyone, no not at all. I'm the kind of person who is selective of who he dates, and even more selective of who I get into an actual relationship with. It's called standards, be proud that you have them =)
not at all, I'm in the same boat
i feeel your pain! I never had boyfriend either
It wouldn't bother me at all lol
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