How do guys react to girls who had no boyfriend since birth?

[jeune]

This question just came across my mind recently. I was just wondering, what could be the reaction of guys if the girl they are dating will confess to them that she had no boy friend since birth. Would that turn them on? or would it be a big turn off to them? and why? I hope someone could give me answers. Try to put yourselves on this situation.

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thanks for the comments but please do add more ... ^____^

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

I could see it being a problem for a woman who sees a man never having had a dating life. (If other women never dated him, there must be something wrong with him) But I think I speak for most men that it's not a huge problem to see that the girl they are dating have never been with a guy. Although it might raise some red flags (Is she too high maintenance, is her standards too high? Is she just a player that sleeps with guys and doesn't date or seek relationships?). Also, not having been with a boyfriend or a dating life but realizing she doesn't sleep around means her vagina is going to be like Subway...I like to eat fresh X-D

Anyways, psychologically, (and I think there was research on this) they found that a guy who is surrounded by women appears to be more attractive to other women, whereas a guy seeing a girl surrounded by men does not appear attractive to him. I think its evolutionary. Since in the aggregate, women hold each others opinion high, so seeing this type of guy signals there is something about him that is attractive to the females and women search for clues like this when searching for a mate. Since most women are chased they look for clues from other women indicating how he is attractive. Whereas women having too many guys around her signals too much competition. So how does this answer your question? A single woman who rarely has guys in her life appears more attractive, however some red flags are raised as to what kind of person she is or what her agenda is.

This is why using jealousy to test a guy's interest level (telling him about guys who are interested in you or guys that you are interested in) is a turn off for most guys.

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[xxviet]

I like to eat fresh X-D I lol'd

[xperience]

all guys have different preference when it comes to girls who dated a ton of guys to girls who dated no one at all.

it could mean anything literally. could be that your waiting for the right person. or your pushing too hard to make something work and scare the guy away.

alot of guys would prefer to date a girl with some sort of experience. but any good guy would love the opportunity to teach a girl how to love and feel loved.

just don't go looking for it. it will happen to you. remember that when someone is interested they won't admit it. they are as much afraid to make the decision to step up.

alot of guys are afraid of rejection. attractive girls usually have problem finding guys because of this. people always doubt themselves before actually trying. which is sad honestly

all girls in general look for one thing. for someone to understand them and love them for them and nothing more.

anyone can offer plenty on the plate when it comes to relationship. but it takes two. communication is key. attraction is another believe it or not. some are more open to getting to know the person from the inside and that is what makes them beautiful.

like I said. everyone has their own preference. this is what I want you to do.

just continue to be yourself. because its beautiful. you don't need to change anything bout you to get yourself a man. a true man will love you for everything that you are.

i hope that helps! <3 gl boo

[jeune]

verry true.. I'm learning a lot from you.. ^____________________^..

[dryad]

You just missed a post earlier tonight as to why girls pucker up their lips like you.

[Malcom_Reynolds]

Wouldn't be a turn on or a turn off. I'd think it's cute and probably feel special being the first guy she's had a relationship with, but I'd also think that she probably doesn't know much about relationships. Would it sway me either way? No. But I don't think it's something to hide.

[moviedude714]

depends on how old she is and if she is around my age or older, it makes me feel better that I am not alone, it would be more romantic, special and joyous by being each others' first

[cjwright79]

Considering how much scorn I have for most people, I'd be encouraged that you can't stand them either.

[jeune]

mmmm.. I see. but have you ever had this situation before?

[cjwright79]

Sure. I've never had a 'girlfriend' per se, so I'm on the same boat as you. Who cares, really?

[jeune]

oh ... hehe.. but thanks anyways... nice to hear from u... :)

[AmazingParkour]

It depends on the girl. Is she single because she's shy? Or is there something wrong with her?

[jeune]

just shy and socially awkward with people... a late bloomer and started dating out with guys..

[Shaun]

Men aren't the type of people who hold that against you, women are.

[BCRanger10]

I wouldn't have a problem with it.