Any tricks to talk to a girl who doesn't want to talk to you?

[lsksni]

This is about a girl who I like since few years. She's had bad impression of me, as I was literally shit when we first met and many other factors. Things have already been bad as she has already told me to not text her because I texted her too much but it has been a year. She holds a nice grasp in my mind. Any ways to get back?

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+1 y

She's my childhood crush and I am for sure feeling weak.

[Crazybeeguy]

Look we all have that, I have a friend that will never leave my mind. She ghosted me because in her mind every guy wanted her, none were her "friend." I let that go even though we got along real well and it was fun to hang out with her.
She was always having me hang out with her. I moved on if she wants to be in my life that is her choice. You were "shit" you lost that opportunity. Use this as a lesson in life to not be "shit" then when a new awesome person like her comes along then she will want to talk to you.

[lsksni]

Hey, I wanted you to help. If you have time, I wrote a mytake on this on its entirety. Can you read it and say if there is something that can be. I am trying hard to forget her, got busy, etc , but nothing works. Help..

[Peppermint55]

Move on boy. Have abundance mentality.

[Can-I-Get-A-DoOver]

Leave her alone and work on being a better person for the next girl who comes along and for yourself. Maybe this first girl will even change her mind about you but don’t hold your breath. And don’t beat yourself up for being a jerk. Life is about growing and learning.

[lsksni]

Should I not make any kind of contact? She is on fb. Do you think it is a bad idea to send her a friend request?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

With honesty, not tricks.. You can't trick someone into talking to you or liking you, nor should you want to... people deserve fyi be treated with honesty avid respect not tricks and games.

[lsksni]

Can I do something here or is this a dead end?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You can rac reach out to her, "state your case" and then the ball's in her court. whether she wants. contact with you or not.

[lsksni]

Texting her will be problematic because she has deleted my number long ago and really doesn't expect a text from me now.
If you were the girl, would you talk to me after all this? I must have irritated her bad.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I don't know the whole situation to say what I would do. And what I would do or wouldn't do doesn't mean that's what this person would or wouldn't. If you're just deleted avid not blocked, then that doesn't stop you from contacting. Again be upfront avid honest. "I can't get you off my mind" "I miss you" "I wish we could start over", etc whatever it is you're really feeling. Doesn't mean it'll work, but at least you'll know you tried and you maybe just move on past this person if they're not interested in further contact/communication, etc.

[lsksni]

We were never in a relationship and the like-ness was not mutual. It was only from my side. For her, I was just a guy who went to the tuition with her.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Then maybe it's best to just let it go and find someone to like that will like you as well...

[lsksni]

Thank you.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Its time to leave this girl the fuck alone. she's already told you no, its time to move on. She already thinks you're a creep & you're proving her right. If i was her i would have a restraining order on you by now

[lsksni]

The contact was during teenage. It has already been a year and a half. I will not contact her though.

[kamalravi25]

Do you wish her to be happy.
She doesn't like u as she said so.
Even if u get her she won't be happy with u and u will be feeling more sad than b4.
Do u think that getting the person you love is the ultimate goal of love then u r wrong.
Its their happiness.
Once u will realise the true concept of love then u will never feel sad even if u both get separate.
Because u will be happy in her happiness.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Move on. She's not interested and she told you not to text. All you're gonna do is freak her out if you keep pursuing her

[lsksni]

She's my childhood crush.😭

[Inexpensivefurniture]

And that's tough, but you gotta respect the fact that she's not into you that way and told you not to contact her

[lsksni]

Yes man. I'll do my best.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

👍👍

[lsksni]

Should I not make any kind of contact? She is on fb. Do you think it is a bad idea to send her a friend request?

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I wouldn't contact her at all

[lsksni]

Ok mate. So, that's what I'll do.

[lsksni]

Hey, I wanted you to help. If you have time, I wrote a mytake on this on its entirety. Can you read it and say if there is something that can be. I am trying hard to forget her, got busy, etc , but nothing works. Help..

[Puppystarfish23]

Here a trick leave this girl alone, secondly learn his a girl says no it means exactly the same as when you say no, thirdly find a girl who does want to talk to you and learn how to take rejection

[Puppystarfish23]

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[lsksni]

Hey, I wanted you to help. If you have time, I wrote a mytake on this on its entirety. Can you read it and say if there is something that can be. I am trying hard to forget her, got busy, etc , but nothing works. Help..

[ChiTown33]

What like chloroform? I mean if she doesn't want to talk to you why push it?

[ChiTown33]

I feel for ya man. I been there in my youth. But you got to get it through your head you're only one half the equation. You built it up in your head that you're perfect for each other. But you're the only one in this relationship. Te her how you feel maybe not all at once lol you don't want to scare her anymore than you may have lol. Then the balls in her court. If she rejexts you walk away.

[lsksni]

I will do my best man. It's hard, but I'll pull through.

[ChiTown33]

I know you will man! There's a few billion women on the planet.

[SynthKobra]

Nah, fam. You’re coming off as mega desperate and will turn off anyone. She made it clear she wants nothing to do with you so why waste your energy? Abort mission.

[noob__master]

Yeah. Stop talking to her. Leave her and move on king.

[lsksni]

Should I not make any kind of contact? She is on fb. Do you think it is a bad idea to send her a friend request?

[noob__master]

No don’t make any contact. You know she doesn’t want to talk so making contact makes you look needy even if you aren’t women don’t like that. By you not pursuing her it’s telling her you are fine without her. Women hate it when men are fine without them

[lsksni]

This is some "play with mind" stuff mate.😎

[noob__master]

I was talking to a girl for a couple months we had a great time and then all a sudden she just stopped really trying to have conversation so I quite texting her completely a friend told me I should give her a second chance and I said I am. When she decides to initiate conversation. I told him she would text me in two weeks of no contact and what happened about two weeks later on the dot I get a text from her

[lsksni]

The likeness was only from my side. She only saw me as a batchmate. It has been a year of no contact.

[lsksni]

Hey, I wanted you to help. If you have time, I wrote a mytake on this on its entirety. Can you read it and say if there is something that can be. I am trying hard to forget her, got busy, etc , but nothing works. Help..

[noob__master]

@Isksni yeah I’ll check it out

[TurboKid]

You gotta make like a gravy if you overcook a steak. But the best gravy is irresistible. You need lots of flavors. So you hit hard and hit fast. Go a bit berserk, off-road.

[TurboKid]

And don't message after your one shining message. You know, like, "I wonder why potatoes weren't consumed so widely among many Europeans until the late part of the 19th century. I love mashed potatoes." Boom. Send. Then just kind of do stuff and ignore any replies she makes for the next weeks.

[TurboKid]

Of course, it helps if you are good-looking. Some girls might really disagree with this strategy but they can't see how good we look typing this in our undies on the computer.

[lsksni]

This is lol🤣

[Anonymous]

I would be like, "bitch da fuk yo azz want with me?" 50/50 that work out for you but it's always worth trying.

[anon1903]

Leave her alone, man.

[lsksni]

Should I not make any kind of contact? She is on fb. Do you think it is a bad idea to send her a friend request?

[anon1903]

Friend requests are generally harmless. However, if she's only declined once it means she doesn't appreciate you reaching out.

[lsksni]

She won't accept it most probably. Or would even block me.

[anon1903]

That's a clear sign.

[lsksni]

Hey, I wanted you to help. If you have time, I wrote a mytake on this on its entirety. Can you read it and say if there is something that can be. I am trying hard to forget her, got busy, etc , but nothing works. Help..

[anon1903]

Sure

[ShadezMcgee]

Quit wasting your time. Move on and find a woman with your more defined and authentic personality.

[TommyMountainFigure]

4 Billion women on this planet. Why are you so fixated on this one?

[spartan55]

Dude, stop being a psycho, move on, and leave her alone.

[FatherJack]

You simply have to accept she wants no contact and move on

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah go get another girlfriend who is hotter and better and she will come running for you... but will you want her then? Lmfao i hope not.

[Feelicks]

The trick is to stop wasting your time and spend your efforts on a woman who appreciates it.

[msc545]

No, just forget her and find someoneelse. If you bother her it will get you in trouble.

[RawIronhide]

Say this to her "goodbye" she'll go nuts man.

[lsksni]

Should I not make any kind of contact? She is on fb. Do you think it is a bad idea to send her a friend request?

[Anonymous]

Run. And save yourself before your regret it we all know it may looks hard but believe me there's another million of women out there who's better than that girl

[Marhaban-1]

Move on your just wasting your life

[lsksni]

Hey, I wanted you to help. If you have time, I wrote a mytake on this on its entirety. Can you read it and say if there is something that can be. I am trying hard to forget her, got busy, etc , but nothing works. Help..

[Marhaban-1]

I would recommend finding someone who you like so that you can mitigate the feeling of trying to forget them. I believe in you x

[lsksni]

I'll do my best then💪