Men do they like awkward anxious women?

[Anonymous]

Anxiety and awkwardness feels like you are constantly jumping out of your own skin. You aren't grounded and you have nobody who can make you feel comfortable but you want to find someone like that. even when you are alone you are often jumping outside your skin because you can't just turn off how your whole day went when you were around people. Your body remembers.

[abc3643]

I won't say we dislike them, but men find confident women more attractive.

From Dr. Barbara De Angelis's excellent book "Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know".

"Chapter 6: Men's Top 20 Sexual Turn-Offs
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Turn-Off #14: Women Who Are Excessively Needy and Clingy
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"
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Also in Chapter 6:
"> Men are turned on by confidence. This goes back to all of their own conditioning that good equals confident and bad equals weak. "

and mentioned several times elsewhere:
"Remember: Men are turned-on by confidence."





www.goodreads.com/.../377762.Secrets_About_Men_Every_Woman_Should_Know

[The_Maphio]

No. Either depression, unmotivated anxiety and similar or worse mental illnesses make me run fast the directly opposite way. It's not fun, it's time consuming and exhausting.
Sort yourself out before dating anybody, for it's quite sure that you're gonna get bounced as soon as said issues become obvious.

[Anonymous]

No. But they're not repelled by it to nearly the extent women are in men. So if she's cute and sort of sweet and gives some positive vibes back a lot of guys will go for it... though rarely guys who get a lot of women as they'd find it high maintenance and too much trouble.

[Leavesbound]

I find it endearing to see a woman vulnerable that way. When I encounter it I tend to relax and worry less about exposing my own faults.

[Ieie83hrnr]

Thats awesome

[slatyb]

Awkward I can handle. If she's perpetually anxious that gets a bit tiresome as it gets in the way of various activities. Sounds like she should get some treatment for the anxiety.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't mind. I'm actually very good at putting people at ease.

[Curmudgeon]

As long as you don't hold it against them if they are awkward and anxious too.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Honestly, I don't put up with anxiety since it causes delays and indecisiveness.

[Stevefiveo]

I can deal with it as long as they are willing to listen to my guidance.

[JesseJayNeak]

So, in a nutshell, a woman that needs to be comforted? Well, this looks like a job for me

[Adogdog]

Not really, but your picture has pretty eyes LOL

[Anonymous]

i would want to help them relax

[Iron_Man]

No it’s a handful