Do girls want men that other girls want?

[ithetaaa]

I am a bouncer who kissed 5 girls in one-night, all who approached me - they took my number down but then when I texted them each a couple days after, I didn't hear a response from ANY of them. Though I am not sure, lets assume they all talked to each other about me kissing each of them or other women. What's the big deal?

[Effably]

Can't speak for them not messaging you back but as a bouncer you are somewhat outside of the intended dating pool at the place. That makes you, to some extent, forbidden which absolutely makes you more desired by some.

My uni had this rule that new students were off limits intimately for a month or so. Outcome? The new girls would quite happily chase the guys who were forbidden from going with them (to be fair new guys would also view their senior girls as prizes in much the same way). Same people would not enjoy even half of the attention after this period.

Aaand to answer the title question. Pretty sure that is how the market operates. Limited supply, value is decided by demand. If you are in high demand you are perceived as more attractive. How celebrities work, no?

[WolfKvlt]

Maybe they realized that one of them could possibly have some sort of oral STD and did not want to face the reality of the possibility of catching it so their avoidance behavior is a way to cope with it. Don't kiss people unless you know where their mouths have been. You don't know if they were just cumswapping after giving rimjobs and forgot to brush their teeth afterwards just before they showed up to you.
Hope this helps!

[Anonymous]

You are too easy. Maybe thats why none of them want you anymore

[JesseJayNeak]

Chris Rock explained it best. When a guy introduces his girlfriend to his best friend, his best friend will say: "Man, I wish I can find a girl like her!". But whenever a girl does the same, her best friend will say: "Damn, I want him!" and would be willing to kill to do so

[Avicenna]

Yes, sometimes they do. Most of the time they don't.

[UnknownGagsUser]

Yeah some girls like competitive

[Omario2049]

Only the insecure ones don't.

[kevyhanma]

I bet I could kick your ass

[Anonymous]

Yes its called preselection.

[In_Trance]

sometimes