From what I've heard and read about online, all the advice-givers make it seem like all girls want the same "alpha" qualities in a guy and that's it (i. e. super confident, fit/healthy, takes charge, is tall, is outgoing/likes to party, is really intelligent, etc.). However is this actually true?
From my experience, I've seen a lot of girls dating guys who don't have those qualities and don't exude "alpha" traits. Many of these guys are not tall, in shape, are introverted and dorky/nerdy by conventional standards and are not super confident, and yet, they have no problem finding girls to date. I don't understand what to do. It just seems like all the advice and tips on the internet about finding and attracting girls is pointless because it caters to a certain type of person, even though I know there are so many examples that are exceptions to all the "rules of attracting women and getting a girlfriend".
Are the conventional "alpha" traits really necessary for women to be attracted to a guy or is it just a matter of being authentic and getting lucky with whether or not a woman finds you attractive and is interested in talking to you (i. e. is attracting girls something that is mostly out of the control of guys after they've taken care of their hygiene and physical appearance?).
From my experience, I've seen a lot of girls dating guys who don't have those qualities and don't exude "alpha" traits. Many of these guys are not tall, in shape, are introverted and dorky/nerdy by conventional standards and are not super confident, and yet, they have no problem finding girls to date. I don't understand what to do. It just seems like all the advice and tips on the internet about finding and attracting girls is pointless because it caters to a certain type of person, even though I know there are so many examples that are exceptions to all the "rules of attracting women and getting a girlfriend".
Are the conventional "alpha" traits really necessary for women to be attracted to a guy or is it just a matter of being authentic and getting lucky with whether or not a woman finds you attractive and is interested in talking to you (i. e. is attracting girls something that is mostly out of the control of guys after they've taken care of their hygiene and physical appearance?).
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