This girl I like at work stares at me a lot from afar but looks away when caught. She always has a serious face when staring at me but jokes and talks with EVERYONE but me. She did my work samples for me one time, came up behind me and laughed when I almost bumped into her, tried talking to me once (I’m shy) asking me if i was having fun (because the workload was insane that day), i got transferred to another shift where her brother works for about 4 months before I asked to come back and during that “exile” period she came to give her brother something, saw i was there and 9 days later came for overtime on her free days but DID NOT talk to me and even seemed to avoid me only coming up to my work zone when i was far or away to help do my stuff but continued her awkward staring game and was apparently jealous of a female coworker talking to me cuz that coworker told me after i sent her to talk to her that she rudely glared at her and ignored her when she tried to talk to her but stared at us without even hiding it when we talked to eachother. Then around late June I come back to her shift and she coldly ignores me and barely helps me out and when she does she doesn't look at me directly nor talk with or even greet me but continues staring in short bursts and when i look she looks away and socializes with literally everyone even new people except me. Con’s I've gathered is she has a boyfriend but she’s very unhappy with him cuz he's lazy and she pays all the bills and our supervisor knows her since she was a kid cuz he used to bang her mom and he pretends to be her uncle to scare away men i guess but he likes me so he’s also told me some of this stuff himself. It basically feels like she hates me for some reason but I barely talk just work so there is no logical breeding ground for any negative behavior she may have against me and I’m the only one being treated differently by her. She has talked to me but only for work stuff. Barely.
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It seems to me that earlier she use to like you but now it is quite confusing man. at least you should have a chat with her. I know you are shy and i am too that's why i have loosen the girls i really like. So don't be just like me a looser. Talk with her.
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Just talk to her a bit and see how she reacts. Don't get serious without some positive feedback and some indication she is single.
She is not interested at all. Sometimes when you like someone and you want them to like you back you see signals that doesn't mean what you think. So just move on!
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You perceive her signals as mixed because that's what you're giving her!
Make a move ffsSounds like she doesn't like you
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