New girlfriend is a slut?

[Anonymous]

My ex never dated her but had a serious physical or romantic attraction to her for 2 years. He wanted her a lot as he experienced "love at first sight" for her. They fell out due to him, she tried to solve their issues, he didn't listen and cut her off. So they didn't date, never had sex, kissed nothing.
When he got with me, he didn't think of her initially but later on, he tried to reach out to her , recognizing her (when he fell out, he was ignoring her, refusing to talk to her) and tried to greet herm she didn't reciprocate.

After falling out with her, he moved and we connected (he already knew me as a friend, we weren't close nor talked too much though). But we had the opportunity as he moved to my country so we started dating shortly. So with me, he had sex, relationship, met my family, I met his family, families were on social media and we were together, LDR+living together for 2 years. He moved with me to my country again and we both started studying in the same university in Paris too.

After our break up, he left France, went back to his own country then decided to visit London again. Then met the same crush again and stirred up a "friendship" which is now a full blown relationship. He lives with her now and she's met his family too.

So she was the rebound and his 2nd choice right? As he dated her after me

[SnakeBoop]

I think you were the rebound, and not her.
to be fair, does it even matter?

[Asker]

Why isn't she?

[SnakeBoop]

He got into the relationship with you after not being able to have her. And then he went straight back to her when your relationship ended... He was into her, far FAR before you even were a thing. You were the fling to try to get over HER.

[Asker]

So we were few months onto dating when he crossed paths with her. He saw her and was walking towards her pretending to look down, she crossed him but didn't turn back. He turned back to look at her.

Then he saw her again. He was talking to someone then at the exact moment she came out of the lift, and as if instinctively, he turned back and saw her. they had eye contact but she left quickly which even the friend noticed.

Thirdly, he was walking with a friend and she was talking to her friend. They came face to face and he tried to say something to her but she looked away from him to her friend and at the exact moment, my ex boyfriend also turned to see whom she was talking to.

This indicates he only had regrets over treating her badly right?

[SnakeBoop]

girl. just stop. you're obsessing for no reason. Let it be and move the fuck on.
again, YOU were the rebound. But it doesn't even matter. MOVE. ON.

[Asker]

Please answer the above. He only had guilt right?

[SnakeBoop]

girl, stop being a creep. no it doesn't sound like just guilt. Now stop obsessing

[Asker]

Why doesn't it sound like guilt?

[SnakeBoop]

sheesh, you're a nutcase aren't you? just creepy now. give up.

[Asker]

Please answer why u think it's not just guilt. Then I will stop

[Asker]

Also how am I fling? We were together 2 years and his mom added me on facebook/I met her everything and he met my family too

[Asker]

Say it !!!

[SnakeBoop]

Dear God fuck off you pyscho. No wonder he went elsewhere.

[Asker]

Answer

[TommyMountainFigure]

If it makes you feel any better yes, she was.

[Asker]

Why isn't she the rebound?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Are you really sure you want to know?

Because it sounds like he was into her long before he found you, but he tried to put her out of his mind, but couldn't!

[Asker]

So we were few months onto dating when he crossed paths with her. He saw her and was walking towards her pretending to look down, she crossed him but didn't turn back. He turned back to look at her.

Then he saw her again. He was talking to someone then at the exact moment she came out of the lift, and as if instinctively, he turned back and saw her. they had eye contact but she left quickly which even the friend noticed.

Thirdly, he was walking with a friend and she was talking to her friend. They came face to face and he tried to say something to her but she looked away from him to her friend and at the exact moment, my ex boyfriend also turned to see whom she was talking to.

This indicates he only had regrets over treating her badly right?

[Asker]

Also how am I fling? We were together 2 years and his mom added me on facebook/I met her everything and he met my family

[Asker]

Hey!!