Does my girlfriend dress like a "slut"?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend is usually relatively modest. She usually just simply wears a cute blouse, or a tank top/sleeveless shirt with some sort of jacket/blazer over it; and some jeans/pants.

But some days, she wears shorts... it's usually whenever she shaves her legs, and she then wears shorts almost a whole week in a row to enjoy her smooth legs before her leg hair comes back in. And there's nothing necessarily wrong with that. Her shorts aren't even that short. They don't have any legs to them, but they still cover her butt, and all the necessary things.

But the thing is, that though she's quite slim, she's quite curvy in her lower body... no, not fat in any way, but for her flat stomach and weight, she sure does have a big butt and some big thick thighs. Her legs are a lot thinner at the bottom, and then a lot thicker at the thighs. As a result, her shorts look a lot shorter, even though they're not indecent, and don't even show her ass... they almost look like underwear on her.


I've seen girls slim the way she is, but with a smaller butt, and smaller thighs, wearing the exact same style of shorts, same length, same brand... and on them, the shorts don't look like they're too short, nor like underwear. But with her proportions... they just look a bit too small.

But then again, it'd be REALLY wrong for her to not be allowed to wear an article of clothing every other girl wears just because her butt size and thighs are above average... so maybe I'm just overthinking it.

Plus, it's not like she's an absolutely shorts-crazed girl. She usually wears jeans/pants. It's just when it's hot that she wears shorts, or when she gets tired of wearing nothing but pants/jeans all the time.

Yes, indeed.

No... you're just overthinking it, dude.

[Anonymous]

No not slutty at all. I have really long legs so I understand the issue she has. She can’t help the way her shorts fit her body. And she shouldn’t have to feel like she has to cover up her legs either.

[Asker]

For her it's not that her legs are super long (though they are a bit), but more-so that she's quite thick around the butt and thighs... but still, I get what you're saying.

And I agree! She shouldn't have to cover up her legs, indeed.

[linds34]

Not slutty, it just sounds like she wears normal clothing styles. And if she likes her body it's okay to show it off.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say she's "showing it off" as literally every girl in the summer wears shorts the exact same length, so she really doesn't stick out as every girl shows the same amount of skin as she does... but yes, you're correct! If she likes shorts and feels confident in them, her choice.

[linds34]

Yes, short shorts are awesome too :) Can't wait until it is hot enough to wear that stuff!

[Asker]

Yes, they are indeed! When it's really hot, short shorts are really the best you can wear, as they show a lot of skin and are cute, but also keep a sense of basic modesty. Booty shorts I don't like except for maybe the beach where you'd be wearing a bikini and showing your ass anyways, but short shorts in general that just simply show off your thighs and legs I like.

[Rubified94]

Nothing wrong with how she dresses.

[Asker]

I agree! It's just that her butt and thighs sort of make the shorts look shorter... but they're really not, in actuality. They're the exact same length every other girl wears. They just look a bit more "sexy" on her. Not her fault, though. She shouldn't be penalized for it, lol.

[Anonymous]

You can't call someone slut for what they wear.

[Asker]

Not really, but there are indeed ways a slut typically dresses... hence, why women are often so judged and labeled for what they wear, liking it or not, or whether it's fair or not.

The most typical way a "slut" dresses, as by how society sees it, is super small shorts in which show their ass cheeks ("booty shorts" for short), and some really small cleavage exposing top in which almost looks like a bra.

My girlfriend is far from being dressed in such a manner, but her some-what long thick legs and butt sure make the shorts look a bit shorter on her... even though smaller girls wear shorts of the exact same length.

Still though, my girlfriend doesn't dress like a slut.